when you boil male female relationships down to their most basic exchange, the man provides resources and utility and the woman provides access to sex. already, this is a completely unfair exchange when you realize that women actually enjoy and crave sex as much as men, if not more-so. on top of that, it is the expectation on the man to perform sexually, pleasure his woman and bring her to orgasm multiple times.
its like, if u and a woman were making an apple pie together. your job would be to grow the apples, pluck them. plant the wheat, grind it into flour. mead the dough. add the sugar. turn it into a pie. then u bring your pie around to all the women u know hoping one of them will open her oven for you. she doesnt even turn the oven on, thats still your job. then, after the pie is done cooking, u have to feed it to her.
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And you invented the f*cking oven!!
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That's not biologically true or even possible. No woman will ever have sexual urges even within a magnitude of men.
Women can enjoy sex, women can be seduced, or really just allow you to seduce them because they have something to gain, and because being wanted validates one's worth, but that's about it. They do not have testosterone to make them "horny", and you wouldn't want them to anyway. They lack the chemical soup necessary to create arousal, because there is absolutely no evolutionary value to it. It's one of the prizes men get. Being so fucking stupid we think with our dicks.
If women even had sexual cravings even one tenth as strong as men do there would be nothing but constant sex going on several times a day. With every opportunity. With everyone.
Think about your sexual urges. When you go to school, work, the mall, whatever, you can swivel left and right looking at girls you'd want to fuck if you had the opportunity. Dozens if not hundreds you'd consider.
Does that sound like a woman? All she has to say is "yes" and you're fucking. If women had any sexual desire like men do we would have barely built roads. It would be constant sex.
Women have never, and biologically are incapable, of having constant arousal for sex like men. Sure you can arouse them, i.e., do work to make her that way, but you never see a girl in the mall swiveling her head everywhere looking at men's faces and packages and asses and everything else on autopilot searching for a male to mate with.
Sure they may look at a guys ass, but that's to determine how which the wallet is. Or his watch to see how expensive it is. Or his shoes. Looking for any resource signaling.
There's nothing wrong with that, but they don't care about sex. Not really. Arousal isn't their motivation.
In a functioning relationship, both sides have needs and wants, and both sides try to supply for the other in a quid pro quo manner. You take her out to an expensive meal, she puts on a sexy dress and you go home and fuck. Both parties got something out of it.
But those days are primarily over, or that negotiation breaks down quickly in a relationship.
Women stopped living up to their side of the bargain, and men have walked away as well. Why spend money on a girl when her entire desire is just to go to a different restaurant every weekend that she doesn't have to pay for? Then uber home and leave you behind.
So there's no quid pro quo. The social contract is no longer validated.
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That's because the guys they are with don't want to fuck some hambeast on the couch, or she's been a pain in the ass lately.
She wants sex, but not for sex itself. She wants sex because of all the other things around sex, validation, valuation, feeling her partner wants her, keeping him on a leash, manipulating him, that he's emotionally pulling away....etc....
He just isn't interested in her anymore. And she's done things that make him not interested, and she's desperate. That's not being more biologically aroused, that's comparing herself to a man who doesn't have any sexual interest in her. But breaking up is too much of a problem.
Chad gives her some tingles, sure, for all the above reasons. But not because she as horny as some man would ever be.
The man in the mall is seeing women who haven't fucked him over, emotionally or otherwise. Men are sensitive to environments, and an unknown woman is more appealing. Just like when she gets tingles for Chad. New and exciting. Old and broken down isn't interesting.
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I'm not saying women don't enjoy sex, I'm saying they don't have any arousal levels near men's arousal levels. Sex means different things to them than it does to men. With men, its a biologic system in play. With women it's more of a social thing, with some basic biologic arousal at the point of being mentally seduced or physically manipulated.
Sure nymphomania exists, which is a mental disorder. But you rarely hear about satyriasis which is the male equivalent because it has virtually no meaning.
Women like sex so little compared to men, there's terms for it as psychological state.
Men want sex, women want things. Some women get horned up via hormones for about 2 days a month at a very specific part of the luteal phase, but that's about it. That's when the hit the club in a miniskirt and look for a stinky, scruffy guy because they're basically in heat.
Two days a monthly cycle.
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You don't know women.
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Not much of a rebuttal but you gave it the ol' college try.
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Women do have orgasms. They can also fake orgasms, but most women can, and do, have orgasms. Not all can through PiV, some only through certain positions or types of stimulation, it's individualistic.
Sex doesn't not have the biologic needs that men do with women, outside of a desire to procreate. And it's not that women aren't aroused during sex, they can be. It's not that they don't start lubricating when they're in love or you're being romantic with them, they do.
I'm saying women don't have a constant hormonal desire to fuck almost all the time like men do. They just don't. Their idea of being aroused and horny is .01% of a man's desire.
There's nothing right or wrong about this, it's just how they are. Their hormonal cocktail is completely different from men's. Their arousal days are clocked based on their menstrual cycle, which men don't have for obvious reasons.
It's like the attraction thing where 80% of women go for the top guys. It's not "Jesus I need to fuck this guy walking by will do", it's "if I'm having sex it's going to be top tier."
Men will fuck and go with women all across the board if the mood strikes, whereas women don't. I bring this up as this is an example of sexuality between the two. Women don't have the same constant sexual desires, or they'd be having sex all over the place. Women have sex for different reasons that men do, that's all. There's some "arousal" during the act of sex, but it isn't like a teen male in school just wanting to bang everything in sight.
If women were aroused by sex like men are, they wouldn't use it as a commodity. There wouldn't be a fancy dinner and expensive entertainment, you wouldn't even leave the house, it would be a constant fuck fest.
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