Weird messages from plate/fwb

PrinceRaj53 · 2021-07-06T19:26:32+00:00

Hm. Interesting. This is a good example of women's covert communication. I might add it to my list of examples.

Everytime we met in the past, we always go around & around with whatever we do.

She is tired of having to earn attention & validation from you. She wants it as is. So, she wants this to change.

She wants you to do the chasing while she stands in the position of being chased.

"Why dont you chase me like those simps do, you fucker?"

The way she hid it behind that line, is impressive. You are not the first target she practiced this on, that's for sure.

I have thought about cutting it off, but I also can't stop thinking about us, about what we have, about you.

She has very cleverly romanticized the idea of something changing for herself(that she wants to happen), & she's describing it in a way that makes you make her feel like she truely matters in your life and that she is more important.

"You made me feel all these bad emotions so I'm gonna make you feel bad for making me feel like this, & you'll make me feel better about myself". That's the translation from womanese.

I feel like I'm ruining myself at this point

There is nothing bigger and more fragile in this world than a woman's ego. She is trying all she can to salvage what's remaining of her ego at this point. This communicates the psychological agony of her fantasy not coming true, since you never gave in.

Don't get me wrong, I don't want anything special from you

This is a lie on her part. She's saying it in order to protect her ego from harming itself due to you rejecting her fantasy; i.e. the fantasy of the casual fling being more than just that, aka a "permanent" thing. That's what she wanted all along and now she's showing her true face. The mask fall off quicker than I thought, to be honest.

Maybe this is what they call "emotional attachment". So there's that.

Mental masturbation on her part. Irrelevant.

so that was "what she did".

Now, let's see "why she did it".

It's because she’s hitting the wall. Probably 28+.

She's running out of options and the other dicks she was jumping on are not treating her well or ditched her.

You’re fucking her and are treating her more decently than the other "jerks"(why tho), so lack of options, accompanied by tired of being used as a fuck hole by most guys & familiarity to your thinking & presence. Mix all of that & you'll get "post wall hag feels".

These are signs that tell you that you should break the plate now. There are only so many times that the hamster will be able to spin a story she can immerse herself in.

So time to break it off. DTB, BIG and go about your business. Fuck another one once in a while & clean up your mind. And stop treating your plates with such "decency", or else they will end up seeing you as a boyfriend/husband material every time, just like this one did.

Edit : For those who don't know,

DTB - Ditch The Bitch.

BIG - Block, Ignore, Ghost.

Edit 2 : below are a few possible replies to her message that you can give :

"Yeah I think about myself a lot too."

"Thanks for sharing".

"You haven't changed, have you?"

"Anything else?"

Keep it neutral, pull it off by using a bit of amused mastery with a little bit of subversiveness.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2021-07-06T19:31:56+00:00

Save that message. When she doesn’t get what she wants she’ll try to falsely accuse you. Best of luck.

theRobertX · 2021-07-06T19:09:26+00:00

Time to block her #.

Next step will be pregnancy or worse

MisterEdGein8 · 2021-07-06T20:50:02+00:00

Tell her you just lost your job and see what happens.

Pieno_Puta · 2021-07-06T19:12:59+00:00

She wants a bf gf thing. If you proceed, she will ask you to drop the other plates and spin only her.

Groundbreaking_the2 · 2021-07-06T19:02:38+00:00

Sounds like she wants to move on to the next level of a relationship... something more permanent.

bonobodatingstrategy · 2021-07-06T19:31:55+00:00

Well fucking around for women is an extreme waste of time. Women who fuck around until their 30s, seriously shoot themselves in the foot. She's trying to figure out if she can turn you into her slave(aka her husband) before she hits the wall. Women who are more intelligent than the rest start looking for men willing to sign up for slavery in their 20s. They don't wait until their 30s or 40s. And you seem less cold blooded to her than the other guys she's fucking, I'm guessing. In other words, she is trying to figure out where you fit into her plan for life or if you don't fit into her plan for life.

Unshack · 2021-07-06T19:34:28+00:00

Take this to forums.red , MGTOW is not the best place for that question

Also AWALT my advice is to dump her ass and get a doll

IntroductionNew3421 · 2021-07-06T20:23:33+00:00

She wants a relationship. If she had FWB with you, she probably has it with someone else.

If you fall into the trap and accept her masked proposal, she will ask you to be exclusive. But she will probably continue with some of her FWB into your relationship and possible marriage (if she has her way).

Bad habbits don't change so she will continue to want something on the side. Let her hit the wall without you in her life. Find a younger FWB if like this kind of thing, she isn't worth it anymore.

gtowerthrowaway · 2021-07-06T19:42:28+00:00

Send 🎂 emoji

tubra · 2021-07-06T20:22:40+00:00

Ditch her asap, she is nothing but misery

silly_birb · 2021-07-06T20:41:03+00:00

Ignore the message an she will keep thinking about you for weeks.

Then answer after a week "don' worry, i like our time together but i never made you my gf"

Shafi5557 · 2021-07-06T22:45:27+00:00

Take the bait if you want to get skinned and cooked.

She is already blaming that your relationship with her is 'ruining her' and not adding to her life. If you give in to her, she will put more than just blames one you.

Still you do what you want to do. Your an adult. Just recognize danger when you see it.

EndTimesDestroyer · 2021-07-06T22:54:07+00:00

She ruined herself the moment she decided she was a stronk woman and her V was open for all business.

Move on and be careful that she doesn't decide you 'raped' her by not replying. Hopefully you're in a district with sensible SIs but then again mahila case hai.

Good_Click_565 · 2021-07-07T01:45:41+00:00

Is crazy

The only babies you need to be shooting is down her throat.

FanofLemmy · 2021-07-07T16:07:32+00:00

Dont respond, ghost for a few days. Hit her up with "come over". Smash one last time then become Casper.

Title	Weird messages from plate/fwb
Author	Glass_Trifle
Upvotes	29
Comments	44
Date	July 6, 2021 6:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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