What do you think about this?

DangZagnut · 2020-06-09T06:20:18+00:00

Sounds like he was smart to let her go. That's no one to have around kids.

But you never go back. Ever. Nor expect anyone to come back for you. This isn't the military where you don't leave a man behind.

You never return to a relationship, and you never beg someone to come back.

LongTimeOn · 2020-06-09T06:32:03+00:00

He dodged a major bullet there. Ok she's dead and that's sad and all but she made her choice and probably didn't help financially with her kids, forcing him to work longer hours, damaging his kids relationship with their father, not to mention the extra stress and damaged health etc...So no I don't feel sorry for people who do this just to "live their own life". She wanted to run with the bad boys and look what it cost her, drugs prostitution and poverty. This should be a lesson to all young women that actions have consequences, not something that they usually have to acknowledge (pussypass).

Standard-Menu · 2020-06-09T07:02:30+00:00

Honestly it’s best his kids didn’t have anything to do with such a toxic mother

hsjsisjskskkawiej · 2020-06-09T08:35:28+00:00

Rode that CC straight into early grave

TheAdmiralYiSunShin · 2020-06-09T07:55:49+00:00

This man is fucking retarded. Absolute simp to the core. I got no sympathy for someone this dumb and gone and neither should anyone reasonable. Lets do an actual analysis here because I don't see one yet.

First off, six years ago? That's 2014. Women were already FAR gone by this point. He had no unicorn.

He already had a 6 month old set of twins with this woman as well so judgement is at least as bad as hers. Likely they were a big contributing cause to the engagement even occurring.

They had just bought their first house and by this he really means "He" had bought a house. He even knew she wasn't happy even at this point. Lets put all that together now. He was simping hard and living in lala land when his woman was clearly on some other shit. I won't say she was riding the cc train or wishing for chads, but this is really starting to sound like he has always been a cucked beta bucks at best.

Here's where it really becomes apparent the dude is off the deep end. The whole center section from between "One day she told me..." and "Things got better..." is a typical single parent story and holds nothing particularly enlightening. However, after that? Its all destroyed in one sentence:

"She had a harder time."

No. No she did not. This was a very inferior specimen even by female standards. Obviously raised like shit with shit habits and enabled her whole life because her default response is "walk away and don't care" even to something as entrenched in human instinct as their own families. Even after death, he excuses her massive obvious shortcomings and enables her behavior. There's no way this was any less while she was alive. Probably enabled to death by this cuck and her failure-ass parents just like most other females that excuse heinous horrible things with nothing significant.

Keep re-reading the whole paragraph starting with the "She had a harder time." if you want to see just how enabling to the extreme looks.

silly_birb · 2020-06-09T07:46:11+00:00

I keep thinking that many women would have had better lives of they were property of their husbands, and this is one of those cases. She would have resentrd him for years for not letting her ride the cc but when she realized what the sacrifice built she would have started loving the husband.

_ImS_ · 2020-06-09T08:46:12+00:00

When a man is the single parent, suddenly the state isnt so interested in the interests of the children. They don't seem to be locking anyone away for failure to pay child support.

simpleguychilling · 2020-06-09T10:46:28+00:00

Do you see his ex writing a post like this if the roles were reversed. Fck her.

toeshotz · 2020-06-09T06:21:36+00:00

She chose her path, you have to respect her for it.

anon_likes_tendies · 2020-06-09T11:32:14+00:00

Well, she “lived her best life”

CyberSmith34 · 2020-06-09T12:53:17+00:00

Dude doesn't recognize the blessing, he received. Got to have kids without a nagging wife and no alimony and child support. Blue pill indoctrination makes you blind to the really important things.

ariverinshetland · 2020-06-09T12:06:58+00:00

Why on earth would he ask her to come home? He built that home and it is a sacred place, not to defiled by the presence of filthy degenerates.

FairlyWhelmed · 2020-06-09T11:01:32+00:00

I begged her to come home.

I was still resentful of her and ignored [her friend request].

Huh

The-Thrillster · 2020-06-09T11:24:41+00:00

She got her wish and lived her own life to its full potential. What more can you say?

GmanRaz · 2020-06-09T13:51:16+00:00

She got what she fuckin deserved. She made her choices. Id say she has to live with them, but we all know how that turned out.

SlainFunicle · 2020-06-09T12:03:35+00:00

At least sje was honest and she live her life the way she wanted

michaelfowler · 2020-06-09T13:58:56+00:00

Yup and hell probably get blamed for it

Undead_Chronic · 2020-06-09T14:09:37+00:00

The best thing that whore did was die before corrupting her kids.

RyuShinGen · 2020-06-10T04:07:40+00:00

She wanted her freedom and she got it. How she threw it all away was her own fault.

CertainCrow1 · 2020-06-09T13:22:50+00:00

Sometimes wonder how early my stbx is gonna make an exit. She started blaming me a few years ago when she had high blood pressure and then a couple years ago when she had high cholesterol and all that... Then one of breaking points was when she came into counselling after being told her heart was like 30 years older and wanted out because I was always gonna be the death of her. Well haven't moved out yet and other day I noticed she down a 4 pack of snickers in 24 hours... Docs been telling her for a few years now she should change some habits but seems incapable of doing that... Suppose she thinks once I'm gone she will magically get better. Well after we decided to get divorced she did have an improced test result.. So I said whether in her head or not it's improvement but reality is tests can vary. She's certainly on the path to destruction and pretty sure she's gonna have a much harder time finding someone to replace me then she thinks .. now in 40s, 2 kids, despite being half Asian starting to age and put on weight with bad snacking habits.

What's sad is she loves her kids and they love her. They need her around for a long time still. She wants to have kids more until youngest in school but not only doi want them 50% but I would almost argue it might be in best interest of her health. She's not used to having them all by herself and is stressed enough even when I'm doing most of the care after work

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-06-09T15:53:38+00:00

I think she made her choices, not his fault her choices were idiotic.

APerfectTomato · 2020-06-09T16:07:26+00:00

I'll say this for her, at least she lived her own life. Too many people make poor choices & try to put it on others. This girl fucked up her own life & dealt with the consequences herself

Also, never let a girl settle for you. This dude was the beta bucks, and this is how it ends

4Sammich · 2020-06-09T16:25:46+00:00

She was likely a junkie before they met but she wanted the married life. Cleaned up for a bit but the pull of opiates is a big one and when she tired of the motherhood life ran back to it. Really no different than running after Chad.

MGTOWmedicine · 2020-06-09T20:33:37+00:00

Play stupid games...

Jadedoldman65 · 2020-06-09T22:05:20+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being sad that someone died. He's lucky that she took herself out of his life years ago and didn't bring the train wreck that she made out of her life back to his home to destroy it...but there's nothing wrong with feeling sad about someone passing away.

rubix_fucked · 2020-06-10T01:11:53+00:00

He is fine and the kids are fine. The kids won't even have a memory of her. No alimony, no child support and no games with custody.

Shame she made so many mistakes and poor choices. That being said she didn't drag the kids and the father down with her. This is as happy as this ending gets.

edgysecularist · 2020-06-10T02:35:18+00:00

What a happy ending

rayedward363 · 2020-06-10T21:29:03+00:00

He was simping, but he got a lucky break. She was living her "best life" and partying all the time, which is likely the real reason she didn't come back instead of the sob story we got. Only once she hit that wall and the dealers wouldn't give her drugs for sex anymore did she try to slink back in.

Title	What do you think about this?
Author	haaiiqna
Upvotes	115
Comments	41
Date	June 9, 2020 6:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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