Why does prostitution feel wrong?

pepe_the_third · 2018-08-12T07:25:21+00:00

Because they aren't even worth $50

2018-08-12T08:04:12+00:00

Speaking for myself, it was a heavy cultural and societal influence.

When I was 25, I realized that the idea of visiting a prostitute felt really... wrong. And I couldn't think of a single logical reason why it should. It's legal here in NZ, so I decided to confront this awkwardness and visit a few.

I was so nervous for the first one, but the local escort review website said this particular lady was great for first-timers, since she did hot-stone massages too. It ended up being a thoroughly interesting experience. I brought her a small box of chocolates and gave her attention during the session, and she thanked me by giving me an extra half hour (it helped that I visited her in the morning).

For myself, the "wrongness" disappeared after about the third escort. I had good talks about life with most of the ones I saw. Generally I was surprised to find them happier and with better life stories than the strippers I've talked with... but that is very likely selection bias, since I was very careful about which escorts I visited, having read many reviews.

Ultimately they're just women... while some of them will have been abused when young and left broken inside - like many strippers, and enough women in the general population too (best part of being MGTOW is no more hearing women's rape and sexual abuse histories) - others are simply just trying to find their place in the world like the rest of us. And it's an honest job.

I personally believe we're taught it's "wrong" simply because normal women are fearful of losing their grip on us to easy pussy -- the exact same way that the sex doll industry is under attack recently.

fritobandito214 · 2018-08-12T08:19:37+00:00

Get over that shit bro, it's just a brainwashed taboo we've been fed. Prostitution serves it's purpose when you master how to use it.

somuchluv2give · 2018-08-12T07:29:30+00:00

For most guys a big part of sex is the ego boost and validation that comes from “getting the girl”. You don’t get any of that when u pay for it and any other guy could just pay and get it too.

2018-08-12T09:30:20+00:00

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RustCole76 · 2018-08-12T07:50:16+00:00

Because that's how they programed you to think. You think dudes 200 years ago gave a fuck?

DavidShekelburg · 2018-08-12T07:38:29+00:00

Because the biological drive is to procreation not fun, and regardless how Hollywood has tried to pervert it you somehow still feel that.

NordHamsteri · 2018-08-12T10:30:30+00:00

The pussy cartel devaluates and reminds the avarage female that she is only a different kind of prostitute.

Mgtowmillion · 2018-08-12T13:09:29+00:00

Sex was sold as validation.

I think it stings when you calculate all the "free" sex real cost to you.

owninfools007 · 2018-08-12T10:57:49+00:00

It only feels wrong because you hand cash over. Cash you could have used to buy something that was actually useful. If the sex was free no biggy.

cryptotim70726 · 2018-08-12T15:43:24+00:00

Simple brainwashing. You are told your entire life that "any 'violence' against women is wrong". They started with physical abuse(which I can agree with , to some extent). Then they included prostitution. Then they included language. Then they included money. Air conditioning. Etc.

I put violence in it's own quotes because they keep changing what they want to consider violence. 99.9% of it is complete and utter bullshit. I'd even go as far as saying the 90% of alleged physical abuse is bullshit. Just my opinion.

jasperspaw · 2018-08-13T17:28:55+00:00

Sex is an incomplete substitute for relationships. I'm not looking for just sex, I'm looking for intimacy, trust, support, affection. Cuddling on the couch, falling asleep with her in my arms, knowing she won't be gone with my wallet and watch when I wake.

Sex trade workers don't offer anything beyond sexual release. The illusion of love, the shallow end. Faked orgasms for cash, as impersonal as renting a U-Haul.

2018-08-12T13:14:13+00:00

If they legalize it, it will give metoo more legal wiggle room

Hiromant · 2018-08-12T14:41:30+00:00

Because you can't buy desire.

wasthereadogwithyou · 2018-08-12T16:43:44+00:00

It probably does have a harmful effect on society (not that that matters to the oligarchs running the show). The actual reason it's illegal, though? They need sex to control us. Women won't fuck/date/marry guys that don't have a job or money. Women can easily be socially engineered into coveting diamonds and other useless shit. Men might resist the brainwash, but nothing is going to stop them from wanting to get their rocks off. To put it more succinctly- men won't necessarily be slaves for money, but most of them will be slaves for sex.

Shdwfx__ · 2018-08-13T14:25:59+00:00

What do you think a relationship is?

marcopoloman · 2018-08-12T07:49:07+00:00

You are taught something your entire life that is wrong. It's the same as religion. You aren't born cheistian or whatever. You are Christian because of your parents.

BitchesBHating · 2018-08-12T19:02:07+00:00

Well one reason it’s so grody. If it was like the out days in China with a nice mansion and a meal and bitches entertaining and massaging etc while you chilled and then banged clean thin girls in nice rooms it would feel different.

genethedog · 2018-08-12T20:11:34+00:00

Because we have some heart and know that the whore is a very damaged and desperate animal.

a17c81a3 · 2018-08-12T22:57:50+00:00

Prostitution doesn't lead to family or romance (unless you are really stupid). Our genes know what is up.

JPaulRaines · 2018-08-13T03:41:35+00:00

Because it doesn't make you feel "special" you're just a guy with $50

Driveshack · 2018-08-12T07:28:36+00:00

Anywhere prostitution is legal, it's expensive. That's because if it was cheaper, it would price women out of the market

father13 · 2018-08-12T07:41:35+00:00

Cuz they p*$$y is stankin

Winkler_Cancervoice · 2018-08-12T17:40:55+00:00

Its absolutely obvious. Its because you aren't desired and loved unconditionally. If the other sex isn't interested in you other then your resources then you failed your only purpose in life and you are genetic trash and we're not supposed to reproduce.

Title	Why does prostitution feel wrong?
Author	legitimatecustard
Upvotes	25
Comments	34
Date	August 12, 2018 7:22 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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