you know im actually okay.

StyleandSpeed · 2016-12-29T10:04:51+00:00

Keep in mind that it's hard for everyone. Every guy here has that chance to pull the trigger and there's nothing wrong with that if you've struggled all your life without any success but keep in mind that suicide is the last straw, you could always do it but you can never come back.

Stick around, explore any and every possibility of life, travel, engage in social interaction with like minded people, learn and grow.

If you really push yourself in the right direction, and I mean truly give it all that you got towards success then I doubt you'd want to off yourself anymore. All it takes is the proper perspective and correct certain realization to finally free yourself from your mental torment.

scorched_throwaway · 2016-12-29T10:34:24+00:00

good to hear.

brothers we are.

you do not have to do anything, except survive, that's all. beyond that, your choice.

we are organisms, struggling to survive, floating on a rock in space. ..and we have no idea why we are here.

you do what you want, nothing more, nothing less.

..and fuck anyone whom gets in your way.

EDIT: pm me, if you feel the need. soul fucked, deleterious shit, i've been through. yes, i've seen the darkest side.

though i'm here. do not hesitate.

EDIT2: just want to note.. there is life on the other side. if you think there isn't, you are wrong.

Stridaar · 2016-12-29T12:20:07+00:00

People that consider blowing their brains out, to me, have reached the point of what I call reality. Everyone feels the same way.

johnnyblorf · 2016-12-29T13:19:27+00:00

Now that you've contemplated oblivion and been prepared to cease to exist, you can do anything. The worst that can happen is you die, and you're okay with that. Go and conquer the world, friend.

UglyPrince2000 · 2016-12-29T12:59:56+00:00

If I ever killed myself, I would do it like the samurai, seppuku style! When they find my body they'll be like, did this mother fucker just seppuked out this bitch!? He just seppuked the fuck out this bitch! Painful but respekt!

hrterwr · 2016-12-29T10:56:14+00:00

But ain't about how hard do you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much you can take and keep moving forward [...] you gotta be willing to take the hits

This is not some another motivational bullshit, this is the truth.

-I-Am- · 2016-12-29T12:56:32+00:00

The more I think about getting a woman, the more I realize how pointless it is. Sure, sex is fun, romance is fun. But the cost is too great. It isn't worth it.

Malefics · 2016-12-29T14:36:55+00:00

I remember back then I wanted to kill myself, back when I was blue pill. I based my entire self worth on women and their validations towards me. After finding MGTOW, I feel so free and relieved. I can finally sigh in peace, I no longer worry about keeping females happy for their approval. Looking back I cringe at the thoughts I used to have, but that is thanks to society's programming.

Now I can do whatever I want. I am free!

The point of this is, if you thought about killing yourself because of women, do not do it. Killing yourself over a female who has been rammed by Chad, Thad, Brad, Chad's cousin Brent and his twin brother Trent is definitely not worth it. We as men have the ability to do almost anything in this world. We built this world. Back then we men hunted mammoths and fought off Saber tooth Tigers while all women did was sit in the caves and gossip until the hunt concluded. Your life is brief moment in this universe, make every second count!

undead_drop_bear · 2016-12-29T13:49:35+00:00

i've thought about offing myself before. then i found out i could fuck that up too and live retarded the rest of my life.

don't be retarded if you don't have to be.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-12-29T16:00:01+00:00

Your worth is not defined by what women think of you.

MTGOStark · 2016-12-29T19:23:48+00:00

No. 1 rule of going through a hard time is: Do not kill yourself.

What makes your situation seem difficult is almost always subjective, which also means that it's apt to change over time as you gain more knowledge and experience.

Some teenagers kill themselves because of a breakup. Some young adults kill themselves because they lost a small sum of money. From an wiser person's perspective, those things aren't really worth it at all.

Almost every problem you face now will seem small in the future. Think of it in economic terms. 100 years ago, $1000 was a large sum of money. Today due to inflation, it's not that much. In the same way your bad things will be "inflated" away over time.

Given some time and some work, anything can be turned around.

dot_dot_beep · 2016-12-29T13:22:03+00:00

fail = first attempt in learning

Keep at it, bro. Don't give up.

victor_knight · 2016-12-29T13:37:22+00:00

Why were you thinking about offing yourself? It wasn't due to women, was it?

Cuck-WTF · 2016-12-29T14:48:49+00:00

I wouldn't complain if I went in my sleep, but aside from that, I like to learn.

One can hardly ever fail at acquiring knowledge.

SamCasey98 · 2016-12-29T14:56:20+00:00

Women do not have and will not provide you anything that validates you. If it seems that way it only the product of women's manipulation.

Having an relationship with a woman is not needed to have a great life. In fact, a relationship with a woman leads to not having a great life. You should be doing high-fives, you are in for a great life.

geocitiesuser · 2016-12-29T14:56:27+00:00

The fact that no one would care if I died keeps me from killing myself. Fuck that.

TheMungusOfHugh · 2016-12-29T15:58:49+00:00

Failure is just learning how not to do it, success is just not repeating the failure.

trigger_bear · 2016-12-29T16:22:58+00:00

Here is the National Suicide Prevention Hotline. 1-800-273-8255

If it gets bad, call. Your life has value. We need guys like you.

RXRob · 2016-12-29T17:00:09+00:00

All a man needs is food, water, and a roof.

Get a cabin in a woods and find yourself.

hb8only · 2016-12-29T17:07:08+00:00

thumbs up

eja_cool8 · 2016-12-29T17:12:05+00:00

I've never had any suicidal urges since finding MGTOW. MGTOW was my saving grace. Even when I went through hard times MGTOW reminded me I've got so much to do and enjoy.

embaira · 2016-12-29T17:16:55+00:00

Find a cause, find a mentor and go from there. Death will come don't worry about that.

BukM1 · 2016-12-29T19:20:30+00:00

suicide is never the answer. provided you are still in the game you can still win.

many people who have ended up doing great things or living extremely well have also gone through a hopeless period where all hope is lost and suicide seems a "good choice"

endure and conquer

Indigo_Monkey · 2016-12-29T20:03:42+00:00

Good on you bro.

clungey93 · 2016-12-29T20:21:19+00:00

I have often dealt with suicide ideation, never followed through or attempted - i've been a bit better over the past month or two though. Like other commenters have said, perspective is really important, as is being able to shoot the shit with people on a regular. I've had more problems thinking about it recently mainly because I now have fewer male friends in my life then ever before (mainly because of falling outs/them being pussy whipped).

If you ever need to talk about anything then PM me brah.

ILXXLI · 2016-12-29T21:22:34+00:00

Listen, if you've reached the point where you are honestly ready to kill yourself (men really want to die, women just want attention) then think of it this way: You're playing with house money. Just do whatever the fuck you want to do. If doesn't work out, or if you end up in jail, you can still kill yourself, and what have you lost by living a little longer?

palaceposy6706 · 2016-12-29T23:01:30+00:00

Glad to hear!

Keep hearing about suicide survivors that say how in the act of killing themselves, they realize their problems are trivial and survivable and they just want to keep living...

LogansRun1970 · 2016-12-30T00:16:00+00:00

Its odd, but looking at people who are in situations WAY WORSE than ours often makes us feel better about ourselves.

Check out the people in the /r/divorce sub and see how awful divorce can be, its a real pick me up, in a fucked up way.

Onkel_Adolf · 2016-12-30T01:20:23+00:00

Suicide is for the perma-cucked. Do you wanna be remembered that way?

p0inky · 2016-12-29T19:38:21+00:00

Why the hurry? Death comes sooner than you think and would otherwise want it to. Too much stuff to do, accomplish, learn, and experience before you exit stage right.

It sounds like you are just seeking radical change in life. Why not pack your necessities to live, get in your car, and go somewhere you always wanted to live. I did exactly that 10 years ago. I moved 2,000 miles away with only a duffle bag of clothes, a microwave, $5k in the bank, and a beat up car from 1992. Found a place on craigslist the day I arrived, bought an air mattress, and worked a shitty job for three years before I went back to school to finish my undergrad and then pursue/finish a graduate degree.

I had no plan, no prospects, and knew no one there. It was literally rebooting my life by changing my surroundings and cutting contact with pretty much everyone I knew at the time.

Put yourself on the grind. The harder you struggle, the more motivated you will be to escape your current situation/environment and improve your station in life.

The only question I still have is whether or not I would still have the balls to do the same thing today now that I'm "comfortable." That's what scares me the most, the fact that I lost the edge and willingness to take the risks I used to...

Mengs87 · 2016-12-29T20:21:33+00:00

Let this man be an inspiration to you:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HX4saxIfPYw

Title	you know im actually okay.
Author	nogamerpill
Upvotes	83
Comments	40
Date	December 29, 2016 9:57 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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