So this is a throwaway account. After checking my FB feed this morning I see the usual passive aggressive 'motivation image' about starting over bla bla bla. You know the type.

Any way, lots of comments from women but one of them made me laugh. It made me laugh because now I know AWALT. You will never be special.

Here is what the comment said:-

'I was not given a choice to start over. My husband died after 41 years of marriage. It has not been easy, but with the love of family and friends I have moved forward. I've met the love of my life now and couldn't be happier. You never know what's around the corner!'

TL;DR: Even after 41 years of marriage and death you will never be special or 'the one'.