I fucked up. About a month ago after realizing a friend I had feelings for didn't feel the same, I decided to stop trying for girls, just live my own life, and follow my passions. However, a week ago I met someone who flipped my world upside down. She was beautiful, smart, funny, interesting, every guys dream girl. She showed interest in me and her friend group started hanging out more with my friend group over the week. This led to more guys being introduced to her and next thing you know she is interested in a few of us. No big deal, competition is competition. At a party the other night she hits me up and calls me and talks to me on facetime for an hour about how she's upset and her friends are pressuring her to get with one of us and how she only wanted to get to know and be with me, but wanted to wait and take it slow so all the drama in our group over her settles down. OK sure, I'm willing to wait for you. No more than 15 hours later she texts my friend that she wants to hookup and was only interested in him the whole time, and insists on it, meanwhile I'm hanging with him and he shows me. I let down my guard for this girl and actually let her convince me for a minute that she had the best of intentions and only confided in me because she cared about me. God only knows how many other guys she is playing, and how many of them are unaware of the absolute ugliness inside. I'm just glad I got to break the bond while it was only just forming. This is female nature unchecked, this is the modern woman. Stay safe brothers, trust nobody besides yourselves.