Accepting isolation

ghostpath · 2021-01-26T20:52:09+00:00

Hi beautiful, listen, dont post on here cause most people are just gonna tear at you. You see how that answers your question? Isolation is amazing! You dont have to defend yourself. People are the worst. Theyll see any weakness and tear you down and they only respect status and power. Its great to not get ENTANGLED. Freedom is not being entangled. Nothing in this world will make you suffer like people can make you suffer.

Just yesterday I slept in the wilderness, true backcountry, no phone, internet, no people, only alligators and panthers. It really shows you how insane this world is. When I got back and was riding the city streets these morning I was so depressed. All the fakeness in the street, all these fake tits and fake bodies and fake personas and everyone is trying to impress people they dont even know. Its objectivley disgusting. So isolation is a gift! You have to be mentally prepared for it though. And as far as mental disease goes...i dont buy it. Ive been 'diagnosed' as bipolar and this and that and immedietley they want to put u on meds. One needs to study the psychiatry field and youll understand why that is. Its all fake, its all buisness. Most these psychatrist and psychologist are more fucked up the their patients. EVERYONE is fucked up. just look at people in the street. Its all fake, when they are home again and alonr they are miserable. Its just that low income people like me for example are more affected by depression and stuff, but EVERYONE is dealing with this. People are miserable, they commot horrible acts and its all normalized so you dont even realize it. For example, my dad is openly fucking and dating his cousins ex wife. Thats normal for these people. They dont give a fuck about that cousin or if hes driven to suicide. Its all about what they want, what tickles their fancy, no moral, no scruples. MOST PEOPLE ARE LIKE THIS.

Mental disease exist, but the way its tossed around now a days is bullshit. Doing that to your ex husband is a mental disease, but nope, thats normal. Sensitive people with morals generally are 'bipolar' and shit. Its all bullshit. They are making half of this stuff up. look into it, its true!

roxon89 · 2021-01-26T16:12:45+00:00

You don’t accept that. You get that mental illness treated. Like....start today.

casra888 · 2021-01-26T17:00:29+00:00

Don't accept it. Get to work CHANGING IT! Work on your mental health and get yourself FIXED!

desertedpotato71 · 2021-01-26T17:01:13+00:00

either you do something about it or don't complain if it's affecting you...

2021-01-26T17:11:43+00:00

Play D&D on discord with buddies.

frenchlouve · 2021-01-26T18:12:39+00:00

Get a whole stream of hobbies that you enjoy. Get hobbies you enjoy so much that you could do them all day. Excel in your hobbies and maybe you can get into tournaments of sorts and (this is a longshot) make money doing them.

SpaceNinjaDino · 2021-01-26T18:50:58+00:00

If you are lonely, I highly recommend a sex doll. They completely solved that problem for me. Simple beautiful interaction and amazing cuddles.

throwaway99220077 · 2021-01-27T10:37:44+00:00

Lots of people (majority of them in the world) don't have high paying careers, women or even true friends. Doesn't mean you have a mental illness and even if you do have an illness, this is not necessarily a symptom of that.

What can you do to overcome this. Find a skill, one for that you like and one that you have some natural talent for, and grow into it as much as possible. You will find a lot of confidence and satisfaction as you progress through this, if you keep at it, it will open up future avenues of employment. You don't have to quit your job for doing this, do it as a passion project, and learn good time management. Through this "hobby" or side project, you will also come into contact with a lot of new people, with an obvious shared interest. You will be surprised how much more easily you will be able to talk to them. You may soon find yourself part of a close knit social group maybe then you will realise there was no mental illness after all.

Another thing that you can do is to read as much as possible, and write down complex thoughts. It really helps with bringing clarity to whatever you are trying to think.

Stay Away from porn unhealthy food, social media and wasting time on youtube videos, excessive gaming.

I think if you can do even 80% of this you will find a transformative change in your life.

chals777 · 2021-01-27T11:18:46+00:00

I read I only have terrible things to say ... so...

Your mother smells like elderberry and your father is French..

For some constructive things.

Try to challenge it.

My wife used to have social angst but we worked at it, so little social then more and more. And then she got much much better and well, find another man .. that's why in here .

Point is, sont frontal assult it, dont run away with it.

But conquering one bit at a time, lead a to success.

There is some counseling theory on this too

TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl · 2021-01-26T19:06:57+00:00

Keep paying attention to it and the issues it causes until you figure out what to do or give up. Acceptance is more about giving up than it is about remaining calm.

2021-01-26T19:41:08+00:00

Just keep the same woe is me attitude and everything will fall into place.

BringTheFingerBack · 2021-01-26T23:17:49+00:00

I don't think the internet, especially social media helps with mental illness. I think trying to get as close to how humans were supposed to live. I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety, I found running 5km races really helped. Exercise and more importantly a sense of competition really helped me beat both without drugs. Even stupid weekend 5km runs you can focus on beating your position, time and even other people who finish ahead of you.....this was all pre-covid off course.

2021-01-27T02:12:35+00:00

I think you should try to proactively better your situation. Don't write yourself off, man. You deserve to be happy.

wu_wei_the_way · 2021-01-28T03:55:08+00:00

Read ernest becker, denial of death. I had crippling anxiety for years and then I read this book. I learned I was afraid to die. I cope with my anxiety with my art, creative writing. I hope to achieve some kind of symbolic immortality through my writing. I have very little anxiety now. I have purpose. Take care of yourself, brother.

BaseApprehensive8386 · 2021-01-28T12:38:52+00:00

Pick up playing the guitar. Get a cheap one and learn the chords. Guitars are amazing.

little_jimmy_jackson · 2021-01-26T19:30:40+00:00

I think of mental illness as something that you can "beat" and actually recover from instead of a life-long affliction that you are stuck with. What have you been diagnosed with? Please don't take any of the psych pills offered by mainstream medicine, they turn you into an agreeable, impotent zombie.

ConfederateGuy · 2021-01-27T10:10:47+00:00

Who says you can't have a high paying career. Working from home is becoming the norm nowadays so your career options are far more open than you think. Your mental health needs treating but you can have all the things you want, you just have to fight for it.

Title	Accepting isolation
Author	Johnewenthethird
Upvotes	1
Comments	32
Date	January 26, 2021 3:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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