Any exceptions?

anon_likes_tendies · 2020-09-18T13:07:22+00:00

Just don’t do it.

DangZagnut · 2020-09-18T13:56:10+00:00

Sure. Date casually.

If you’re going the marriage route, for some reason, then do it in your thirties with a working brain, and not twenty when you’re stupid.

Talksaboutjobs · 2020-09-18T13:14:04+00:00

Awalt. If you marry you will get fucked, no exceptions for that.

DonMelbourne · 2020-09-18T23:51:27+00:00

"MGTOW" is just a label, it isn't a dogma. You do you. Some men will be happier being married with kids, than being MGTOW. It just depends on your own needs. You know the potential costs and the potential benefits, so make your decision. The rest is just luck.

redditloginfail · 2020-09-18T17:46:35+00:00

I married a homeshooled Christian girl. Had 3 kids, marriage lasted about 13 years. I lucked out in the extreme that due to very unusual circumstances i had my kids 2/3 of the time post divorce. Still had to pay over $80,000 to get rid of her. But at least no alimony or child support and i didn't end up homeless or in jail.

Yeah of course she had a mid life crisis and found a new guy. It's what women do. In all likelihood it will end worse for most guys. If that sounds great to you, go for it.

classicliberal1 · 2020-09-18T22:42:54+00:00

Conditions for marriage.

You're under 30.
She's under 20.
She's a virgin.
You live in a country where... divorce is rare.
...men don't lose half their wealth in a divorce.
...men don't pay alimony after a divorce.
...custody is always shared unless a crime has been committed.
...you pay directly for the children's expenses rather than writing a check to the ex-wife.

Under those eight reasonable conditions, marriage makes sense. It's a compromise between the selfish interests of men and of women for the benefit of the children. Unfortunately, you will never find yourself in a society that has those eight conditions. They used to all be true for most people.

poystopaidos · 2020-09-18T15:06:23+00:00

Marriage involves far too many risks with almost no benefit, i would love to have kids (which is probably what my biological needs tell me to do) but if possible not through marriage. Maybe a surrogate, maybe co-parenting, i havent given it much thought but a traditional marriage does not seem appealing in the least to me.

JunkRigger · 2020-09-19T02:46:47+00:00

I am all for a relationship if she is deaf, dumb, rich, and owns a liquor store. Other than that, nope.

trash62 · 2020-09-19T19:08:53+00:00

No exceptions. Period. None.

Women do not love men the way men love women. They just don't. Remember this, and remember it well because your mind will do EVERYTHING POSSIBLE to make you forget it when you need to remember it most (like, when you're with her and she seems so sweet)

If you had children you would find the children removed, you would pay child support and you would be divorced or single. Your ex would tell everyone what a pig you are, and you would find all of society takes her side. You would be, as they say, a "deadbeat".

Even if you found an awesome woman who was really cool the relationship would never be on equal terms because whether she wants to or not, there is a whole complex of various organizations full if little old ladies encouraging her to divorce you for money.

You will always be at her mercy. It's not fair to you or her, but that's just the way our world is set up.

Nothing personal, but there are no exceptions.

THEOPINIONPLACE · 2020-09-20T14:36:52+00:00

I will never marry as far as children I have a surrogate fund.Surrogacy is not legal everywhere so check on the laws and do your research.

I wouldn't cohabitate or give off the impression that I am in a monogamous committed relationship of any type. In someplaces this can be interpreted as common law marriage.

I have never met a married couple that is happy.

Title	Any exceptions?
Author	CommiDaddy
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	September 18, 2020 12:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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