GENTS, I NEED YOUR ADVICE

GlobalAsshat · 2020-05-08T14:27:50+00:00

I've come to see that a lot of the advice about women in this subreddit but much moreso the other one and even some of the advice I used to give is flawed in many ways.

Here's what you do... just be a decent human being, but not a pushover. Be confident and develop your life. Have a sense of humor and don't overthink every situation. Get your career in order and get some good hobbies. The right people will come along. Don't get oneitis, overly attached.. people come and people go. Don't make women the primary goal in your life nor put them on pedestals. They are just a person that is coming along on the journey you are making for yourself.

If you do decide to get into a LTR, take some sensible precautions because like I said, people come and people go. I would wait until you are at least 30 and she is in her late 20's to near 30 because women in early 20's are not good for LTR generally speaking. People need to "find themselves" .. a lot of men don't like to hear this but it's just true. They need to figure out what they like first. Yes that means they are probably going to have sex with more than 5 men in their lives. If you can't deal with that, well I don't know what to tell you.

Well adjusted people who are not neurotic and needy and are extroverted will have many friends, often of the opposite sex. There's nothing evil about this. Most of this stuff is on the red pill subreddit, but they take it to extreme, almost PUA type levels. Have fun with life though.. don't take it so seriously, which is the problem most men who have problems with women make.

It seems like I'm getting less neurotic the more I meditate and practice radical acceptance and mindfulness. Hmm.... it's a very peaceful and liberating feeling. I finally understand how normal, well adjusted people who don't have these neurotic hangups go through life....

HonkHonkBro · 2020-05-08T14:06:48+00:00

Not sure, but it may be that she thinks you're super hot or something, evidenced by her going after you so much. That as well as thinking number 3 will make you as successful or more so than her automatically, no questions. I would interact with her modestly and carefully. Be observant as possible for any red flags and be sure you have your own real success before doing anything too serious with her, as if number 3 doesn't work out as she may think it will, she may ghost you in an instant. My advise is see her as no different than a male friend until you have decent independent wealth, knowledge, independence, etc. yourself. Then if she still seems OK, slowly see if she is perhaps a rarity among women or not and worth maybe upping the friendship level.

Altro83 · 2020-05-08T13:07:50+00:00

Who knows. Who cares!

red-tea-rex · 2020-05-08T16:27:27+00:00

She's into you bro. If you're into her make a move. Just cause you're MGTOW doesn't mean you can't date. If you're not, hey, at least she's a good friend and she's helping you out. Not all women are monsters. Sure they have female nature but some are raised right. OP you're doing what hot desired women do all the time, bragplain (brag+complain). "Why do guys keep hitting on me.... Why do they buy me things for no reason..."

ExcessivelyDetailed · 2020-05-08T16:15:44+00:00

Maybe it's because nobody else is giving her attention? That's perceived as valuable.

You don't have to be too cool for school, and you don't have to be an asshole, but you're together to do work. YOUR work.

Pontificating about why all that other stuff is happening is just a distraction: you have a hustle and you need to take care of that. She focused on herself and is making it big. You do the same. If there's room for something else then whatever; nobody here cares. But don't forget what the priority is - it's you, and your success. Don't dilute it. We care about that. Stay on target, brother.

SupremeGentleman92 · 2020-05-08T17:44:59+00:00

I mean as long as she’s not hindering your potential, go ahead and hook up with her. After you’re done getting your fill, let her know u have no intention of getting married, then decide what to do with her from there based on her response. She probably sees you as a good future provider + alpha genetics and wants to lock u down. Girls never chase unless the opportunity is too good for them to pass up.

kboogie82 · 2020-05-15T12:52:11+00:00

Well being that she has (or had) a boyfriend and doesn't mind monkey branching I'd say STR or casual only, who knows who else she is all over. Briffaults Law if she makes more cash than you eventually she look for a man with other resources.

DubsPackage · 2020-05-08T14:12:54+00:00

Let her use her crush on you for career advancement.

Don't fuck it up by catching feelings or getting one-itis.

Think with your brain for once, not your dick.

Even if you didn't need her as a contact, you still shouldn't catch feelings or get one-itis, because that drives women away.

principledbeast1 · 2020-05-08T17:46:47+00:00

If this person has influence over your career prospects or network you should absolutely not date her on engage her romantically. Has no one here learned anything from #metoo.

sgtadamcl · 2020-05-09T04:37:01+00:00

She is your senior. Move fast

German992 · 2020-05-08T13:11:04+00:00

Are you really that “MGTOW” if you’re here asking about what some Friend-Zoning Chick’s feelings are toward you?

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-05-08T13:18:33+00:00

now i got some mixed feelings

Oh fuck! Been there. Take a break from constantly being in contact with her, bang another chick if available. Get a clear head and evaluate the situation.

I know what I'd do, but I'll let you think for yourself.

FindingKeeping · 2020-05-08T16:10:48+00:00

Ghost her. She is after you money and future prospects

Sal_Yodada6502 · 2020-05-08T16:25:23+00:00

None of the coursework included leaving the plantation, I see...…..

Has this sub been re-named r/simpcenter???

Setari · 2020-05-08T18:18:00+00:00

Reading the post makes me just want to say to stay as far away from her as possible romantically. Have her help you with your schoolwork if need be, but I feel like something's up with this in my gut and I don't like that feeling. If anything you can definitely use her crush for you to assist you in your career if you're able to IMO, that's what I would do. Considering she was crushing on you previously while she had a BF says a lot IMO as well.

Title	GENTS, I NEED YOUR ADVICE
Author	antonbivensdavis
Upvotes	1
Comments	56
Date	May 8, 2020 12:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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