I posted here before about my experience getting dumped and loosing my family, but just thought I'd share the follow up stab in the heart (in a nutshell)

2 kids, 1 and 3. Got dumped 6 months ago in April and moved out soon after. Living hell, dealing with work and visitations. Lost my job (got fired for poor performance due to breakup) Spent 3 months on gov support while looking for work, spent as much time with kids as possible.

Found a job, started this week 1st september.

I had the kids for most of August, knowing i would be restricted to every second weekend when i start working.

Here's the burn part.

I told the ex I cant take them this weekend, I needed a break, she freaked out, told me she had plans and that it was my turn to watch the kids. I refused (shes enjoying the partying and sleeping in) and she wouldnt stop messaging me at work the whole week demanding I take the kids this weekend. I found out that she planned a weekend away with a guy she was messaging during our breakup, which made me even more adamant to say no, and because of work stress, I blocked her on social to stop the interaction (for now)

I just got an email with her threatening legal action, as in, getting a formal agreement signed by the courts so that there is no deviation from the plan, and if there is, its punishable with a fine (plan says its my weekend, but because I had them 3 weeks in a row in August, I thought only fair she takes them this weekend)

Here's the juicy part.

"You just can’t stand the fact that I am happy without you. That I have friends that I care about, that care about me and that I am having fun when you’re not"

This women rekt my life, discarded me like a piece of trash.

Fair warning to lurkers without kids, don't have kids, but if you do be careful, don't put your eggs in one basket, never trust a women and always have an escape plan, i did not.