I'm a bit new here but

Women don't think in that linear pattern of "I am a 6 so I must get a 10". It's a physiological and psychological thing. Women don't get turned out by the near sight of men. That's why in 50 shades of Gray they don't talk about the dudes body as much as they talk about his house and profession because having wealth is hot and being desired by someone high up economically and in their business is hot. She's attracted to that and inherently YOU. I'm not saying that she is but if she is then there you go. If you genuinely like her, go and ask her if that's what she thinks about you and see how she treats you afterwards.

Don't any of you see how offensive the word "divorce rape" is? If you are consenting to have sex with her it's not rape. If you aren't consenting, it's rape. Divorce doesn't change it. Just because now you didn't like it doesn't mean it's rape. Don't go telling women that they deserved to be raped and they are rappists if you crumble under a divorce because consensual sex is now for some reason rape.