How do you handle weekends?

PeanutNutter49 · 2019-03-26T02:43:10+00:00

Either use that time to build your own empire, or learn to enjoy your own company. :)

Impossible-asset · 2019-03-26T16:30:07+00:00

When it comes to intimacy needs, I'll hire a good call girl for an hour and enjoy it. That's when I'm not getting ready for my next tour to Germany.

But outside of intimacy, that's when I'm enjoying my hobbies, and the chief of them all is cooking and working on playing guitar fingerstyle which I've taken a liking to.

This is the beauty of mgtow. You take the resources youd be spending on women and use it on yourself. Whatever adventure you want. And you're free to TRY anything and if you like it do more of it. Maybe you find a passion that will eclipse anything you've ever felt for a woman. I know I have, and that's cooking. Find what works for you, and even better, find things that dont! The world is your oyster, experience it. And then get back to us, we all want to know howit's going. For instance, from me:

This last weekend, I did 4 alarm poppers. I took bell peppers, jalapenos, fresno, and habanero chilies and did four takes on jalapeno poppers. They weren't too spicy because I took out the seeds and membranes with a grapefruit spoon, and had nice fat and rich cheeses to pair them with. Herbed Goat cheese with the habanero is some kind of taste bud witch-craft, whereas cheddar on jalapeno is practically a food group. Fresnos did great with a simple jack and ham filling, and the bell peppers were, well, boring. Basically just a mozzarella delivery system, but with a drizzle of 50 year old balsamic vinegar on the top, that just gives it a bright and sweet taste just enough to make the eyebrows raise and get an "ooohhh".

Now they went over great for my marathon runner guests, and they had a blast. But it hit me, the chilies heat can be tempered hotter or milder based on how much of the membrane I remove. So my next challenge is to see if I can do the same with fresh Carolina reapers, currently the hottest chile pod in the world. I'd like to take the heat volume way down so you can really taste the fruitiness of the pod, and then serve them alongside simple jalapeno poppers but SURPRISE I'll leave the membrane in tact. So is it possible that a simple jalapeno can out-do the hottest Chile on earth when it comes to spice? We'll find out as soon as I can source some fresh reapers.

The passion and love I have for cooking now makes romantic pinings of the past seem well, bland.

My friends used to joke that with me being in the kitchen I'd "make a great wife for someone someday". Now, they dont bother with that joke, because once I'm in the kitchen, the food coming out of there ain't no housewife fare, it's Good Eats, the Food Lab, and a dash of Gordon Ramsay.

Find your passion, you can, because you're FREE to do so.

yurimodin · 2019-03-29T17:24:27+00:00

3day weekends are the best shit ever.....PC gaming, rifle range, and jamming on my guitar. It's like Saturday morning cartoons for grownups.

Haywood_Jablomie42 · 2019-03-28T06:45:06+00:00

How did you make it to 44 without any hobbies? Find something you like to do (reading, wood working, shooting, golfing, working on your car, whatever) and do that with your free time.

TigPlaze · 2019-03-26T19:27:39+00:00

I'm doing the professional cuddler thing. I still haven't had my first appointment, but I'm hopeful. I talked with her and she sounds very positive and nice. It's not about sex, so don't try the "pay extra for sex" thingie. That's a definite no, no.

My area also has a very good local music and comedy scene. Maybe go out to see some live music and/or live comics if you're into that like I am.

mtamez1221 · 2019-03-26T03:05:20+00:00

Dogs are amazing.

54yoBachelor · 2019-03-26T15:36:19+00:00

Dipping your toe? Water too cold? JC Dude, your 44., get wet.

Do something you want to do. Improve your life, straighten out your possessions, heal and strengthen your body, learn something new.

I understand the desire for companionship, fellowship and sex can be overpowering but love yourself first and don't worry about 'their' plans for the weekend.

RedMeatTrinket · 2019-03-26T13:15:49+00:00

The great thing is, you can do whatever you want and not answer to anybody. Find a hobby. Learn to sail.

GoldCoastWanderer · 2019-03-26T12:02:34+00:00

If the weekends depress you to the point where you can't go out and make friends, you might want to consider some counselling. I'm serious. Not everyone is ready to go MGTOW, and it's possible that you may not be either. MGTOW doesn't mean you have to lock yourself away and become a hermit, it just means you do things on your own terms.

Do you have any hobbies or interests to pursue? Have you ever wanted to learn another language or learn to play a musical instrument? Okay, maybe you don't feel the motivation to do these things right now, but that's hardly surprising under the current circumstances. Remember this: Motivation is the PRODUCT of Action. Most people thing motivation is the cause of action, when in fact the reverse is true. Try to think of something you've always wanted to do, and start doing it. The motivation to work at it will follow.

Oh, and if you are depressed, try to avoid the usual self medicating behaviours (alcohol, drugs, youtube, MGTOW forums and the like). They won't help your depression, and may actually make things worse.

MakeupIsDemonic · 2019-03-26T06:22:44+00:00

Start a business ASAP!

shimelessemekbeb · 2019-03-26T04:53:37+00:00

try working for yourself you wont just be lonely on the weekend. fill up your schedule with useful good activities or shit that makes you money. or fucking do nothing. final option: meetup groups (not recommended) better option: take some cheap flights on spirit/jetblue airlines to s. america, central, carribean, until you get enough experience to do asia/europe/africa. monger in them all. you'll be back and never be bored.

dickle_doot · 2019-03-26T04:13:23+00:00

I join a sports club, or in my case, an all-male dragonboat team. Other than that, I indulge on facebook of upcoming events, it’s the only reason I kept facebook. Recently, it was a community run.

miltonsyncom · 2019-03-26T03:12:11+00:00

I have a dog, a sex doll to cuddle with, and I’m preparing for a bodybuilding competition so I spend a lot of time meal prepping and lifting (2 hours a day minimum). Try THAT with a woman around, ha ha

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Title	How do you handle weekends?
Author	taco_smasher69
Upvotes	9
Comments	25
Date	March 26, 2019 2:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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