I just finished college, in my last semester I got an unexpected call from a girl I used to have a "thing" with. That was a long time ago, way back in high school. We hadn't been completely out of contact, but just barely talked to each other. But that night basically we talked for a long time and I honestly started losing my guard and thinking with my penis. She said a lot of things to me, like about how she's met lots of guys but they were all emotionally disconnected from her, and how she wished she was dating me because I was her "standard". Also talked about how she discovered she "liked to club and have sex". For some reason I didn't even pay attention to any of these red flags, I was just blinded by what I used to feel for her. Then she told me a "secret" of how she got 'raped' by some dude she met on Tinder, apparently she invited him to her house, let him in while she was naked and told him to wait while she was having her shower, and then he started kissing her and she didn't realize it was rape until his penis was inside her. The more I write this down the more ridiculous it sounds that I almost let myself fall again. So long story short we agreed to date, long distance, even though I'm moving to the United States soon and she's still in the UK. But we made plans to see as often as possible. A few days later she suddenly feels like it wasn't possible and too 'convenient' to do long distance. That we should wait and see if our paths will cross in real life before committing to anything serious. I really did dodge a bullet.