I don't understand why?

SnooDrawings4726 · 2021-02-19T12:09:23+00:00

Women don’t want desperate or insecure men... that’s what a women is... they strong and confident men, ironically these types of men don’t need women, in turn women are drawn to this... it’s a challenge for them, they could have any desperate man they want, but they have to compete for the guy who doesn’t need/want them... that kind of guy must have something good going on they want to be a part of

DontBegDontBorrow · 2021-02-19T11:21:07+00:00

Yeah, male neediness is not attractive. Women and children have a monopoly on that. Soon as you turn 8 & stop looking cute, understand this: nobody will tolerate your neediness. You are out on you own. But for you life is a marathon, & a sprint for women.

Solo_and_Simple · 2021-02-19T12:15:54+00:00

Because you're showing signs of a guy who's on the rise, who will make something of himself. It's hypergamy in action. Women are drawn to men who show the qualities of success (or at least potential success). For women, men are "success objects" (Warren Farrell), and you're showing personality markers that are associated with success. That's the main thing.

A second factor would be the challenge associated with someone that doesn't seem interested in them. Women like to feel as if they have "won" the attention of a man. If you just give it to them simpishly, they lose interest. If it's a challenge, it increases their interest and tingles.

Lots of red pill channels talk about this. It's a very common observation.

I hate it.

Why? Why not enjoy it?

Repulsive-Wishbone56 · 2021-02-19T15:27:23+00:00

Its in a women's programming, when they see a man willing to bend over backwards for them, they see weakness and run away. When they see a man who is happy doing their own thing, they want to destroy that happiness. They dont want what they can easily have. They want the challenge of taking a free man, ruining him and bringing him to his knees.

2021-02-19T12:36:43+00:00

Your value as a man is measured by your labors and the fruits of those labors. Women measure their worth through validation. The first thing you need to do is to stop assigning your value based upon validation (and specifically female validation) and improve your worth as a man through your labors. Once you have successfully done this in your life this paradigm that you’re trapped in will start to melt away. Yours is common in terms of “I like the ones who don’t like me and the ones I don’t want won’t leave me alone.”

Rise above that by knowing your value as a man and moving forward. And avoid the validation game which leads too many men into mating games such as the one you’re currently dealing with.

Best of luck out there.

slamdunktiger86 · 2021-02-19T18:34:58+00:00

It’s also your age.

Man, 22-28 is a disaster for male dating.

You might be fresh out of college, just trying to make your way and all the girls are dating thuggos or successful guys on their 30s.

I’m 34, I remember it like it was yesterday.

Just focus on your self. Don’t get into long term relationships.

Hone your craft, stack chips, invest, travel and learn languages.

Get 3 hobbies. One to stay fit with, one to make you money and one to be creative with.

Enjoy women, enjoy the variety.

Remember, they say youth is wasted on the young. Don’t waste it. Soak up the sage advice in this great community and grow in wisdom my brother.

someoneelseiknow · 2021-02-19T11:45:04+00:00

When you need something you give off a vibe that scares people away. When you are content your energy changes to be someone that people want to be around.

MGTOWpiller · 2021-02-19T13:12:04+00:00

See the SMV chart, as you begin your ascend in SMV, more will take notice of you

MGTOWMonkGuy · 2021-02-19T14:53:22+00:00

I hate it, too. The same happened to me. They are especially annoying about it as well. They will chase you and then when they follow you around, they will pretend to other men like you are evil and they are your prisoners because they want to see a fight. It's fucking stupid. This is how humans work.

glass_tumbler · 2021-02-19T19:49:21+00:00

You're in your 20s - it's a very confusing part of life where you start learning about the veil that was tossed over you when you were a child

as much as the media wants to make you believe otherwise, men and women are completely different. The best thing you can do is keep coming here and reading real-world empirical evidence that supports fact, and allows you to lift the veil.

DavidBolha · 2021-02-19T18:33:34+00:00

I think this scene captures much what was presented. 😎

https://youtu.be/TVmCwmC5-kQ

herefortheparty01 · 2021-02-19T23:45:10+00:00

Women sense a confident man

mitchivantaylorov · 2021-02-20T03:02:43+00:00

..its just the way things are..people always want what they cant have..both men and women..the trick is to not let yourself get got..when they have you where they want you then its no longer your game..keep being oblivious to them hoes..keep them on their toes

AndyCalling · 2021-02-20T17:34:01+00:00

Many women are attracted to confidence. This is odd, because many women also go in to a relationship expecting to change or 'fix' their chosen man. Of course, a confident man will not accept this manipulation, hence the staggering divorce rate.

Title	I don't understand why?
Author	cholmanattom
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	February 19, 2021 10:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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