I might go voluntarily celibate for a while. Relationships and sex are killing me slowly.

Frequentbadideas · 2021-06-28T01:21:26+00:00

1.5 years monk and my life has never been more simple. More money, time and peace. Give it a try.

felafelsmoke · 2021-06-27T17:37:20+00:00

Go for it, sounds like it would do you some good

mgtoown · 2021-06-27T22:59:04+00:00

OP - I feel you. I feel the same way. It sounds to me like whatever red pill you swallowed before wasn't big enough or didn't digest properly. You've had to go through this process in order to fully grasp the rawness of the situation at hand.

In an ideal world - you'd meet a woman, get on great, have a fantastic life, have children and the cycle would continue.

In reality - the "good men" are seen as nothing to women. Women are biologically drawn to Chad - they admit it - and even if they don't, their actions prove it.

So what do we do? We hook up with whatever we can. We're men and our biology tells us to fuck - but even the women we fuck end up banging other dudes, or cheat on us, or don't really care about us - it all comes back to their hypergamy.

Deep within you - you would love a satisfying relationship - hell, I'd love one. But I know that it cannot exist with the way women are programmed.

For me, I'm at the stage where I'm lonely, but the red pill has truly sank in and digested. I'm now in a spot where I'm trying to figure out what to do with my life. It seems you need to also do some soul searching. Chasing pussy is a losing game. You cannot ever win it - so focus on stuff you can "win".

thegreyone3000 · 2021-06-27T21:31:57+00:00

No thoughts, just confirmation on what you’ve said. It’s the reason I chose both mgtow and NoFap. Shits exhausting as hell, the constant ups and downs and being hooked on a girl for weeks or months just for it to fail is soul sucking.

It truly is a drug, just like how addicting porn is and same for food too (over indulgence on the wrong food I mean, eating for pleasure and not because you’re in need of substance)

In this modern world where everything is available at the tap of a few buttons on a handheld computer, it’s easy to become an addict of all of the above and then some. And you don’t realise untill it’s too late, humans aren’t supposed to be like this.

Only way an addict gets clean is detox… so you know what to do my friend. Good luck.

Mi-Infidel · 2021-06-27T21:16:38+00:00

Once you learn to be comfortable by yourself and to love and respect yourself you’ll hopefully realize that you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. Most women today have no idea how to respect a man nor do they care to .

ZephyrL0rd · 2021-06-27T17:36:28+00:00

I strongly advice to seek comfort in being alone and learn to love solitude. You seem like me, there is something that makes you not understand how people who tell you that you are important to them, still can let you ge easily. It can haunt me and distract me from reaching anything in my life. The most productive I've ever been was when I had 0 distractions.

ItPutsLotionOnItSkin · 2021-06-27T23:28:53+00:00

I've been divorced for 3 years and celibate for the same amount of time. Family and friends keep asking me when am I going to get a girlfriend or have more kids. My 2 boys are spoiled and happy. I tell people "I'm working on myself ". But really I'm enjoying life doing what I want whenever I want. I was married twice for 20 years and never bought anything for myself. Now I get what without asking anybody.

Diligent-Education64 · 2021-06-27T18:45:30+00:00

Going celibate is a great experience and all men should try it. Set a time period and stick to it. Learning to ignore your feelings of horny-ness and loneliness is good practice for dealing with women in relationships. Then, if a relationship doesn't work out you can leave knowing you have the skills to not get upset too much and not get depressed.

Being upset seeing someone move on from you can be a form of jealousy. Root out those feelings. You don't own someone because you were in a relationship with them. I know you know this but on some level you be feeling a little jealous. In fact you should be happy they've moved on and out of your life so you can feel free to move on to someone new someday.

BlueCollarSinner · 2021-06-28T06:48:33+00:00

I feel you man, for me I go monk for months or a full year at a time. In the end we have needs, Now i've gotten pretty decent at talking to women and not getting attached to them when we stop contact or seeing each other. It takes practice, and you have to be a bit cold. A couple of years ago I couldn't do it, I'd be get attached and have all these thoughts running through my head when they move on or stop messaging back.

It didn't happen over night, first I isolated myself, avoid women for a bit, concentrated on work, got back into my hobbies, went traveling alone, took long drives solo, and one day I knew exactly what I wanted and company became an option for me. Learn to take care of yourself and it will fall into place. Take time off women, sex, and relationships for as much time as you need. Whatever you're looking for will hit you one day.

dbfkf · 2021-06-27T18:16:31+00:00

You're seeking validation in pussy.

Its the most sociopathic psychopathic narcissistic master out there.

cholmanattom · 2021-06-28T04:13:02+00:00

One myth men should realized by now is that there is no fairly distributed 1 on 1 matching up between men and women would happened naturally. They are all follow 80/20 rule. The reason our society keep working since our ancestors is because the traditional norms enforced upon people to continue functioning properly and not all fell to animalistic desires.

With the dawn of feminism, many norms were challenged and abolished. People of later generations has no moral standard to look up to and eventually succumbed to their natural desires.

Going your own way is the only sensible thing to do in this crumbling society.

Joemacklin643 · 2021-06-28T02:31:57+00:00

Great thread respones, have saved🤙

SnooSuggestions1996 · 2021-06-29T01:29:37+00:00

I've been single for the last year and a half. Dated few girls in that time span and every time it ended anywhere between badly and veryyyy badly. It crushed my soul every time.

I came to realize that the most peaceful times in all that year and a half of celibacy was when I had no relationship in sight. Of course I feel lonely from times to times, but I feel a complete inner peace without any stress. It's relaxing to have nobody to text each day, nobody to entertain except your own self !

Contrary to what some people think, I believe that there's a lot of women who are actually great human beings that are willing to put efforts into a relationship. The only problem is that 99% of these women are already taken, because , as they're great people, their relationships are working lol. So the bad news is that the women that are still available past a certain age are generally not the greatest quality.

So we're stuck here, doing our best chasing some stinky leftovers that think they're 3-star Michelin fine dinner. So yes, fuck that !

StevenStooch · 2021-06-27T21:42:19+00:00

See how it treats you, but don’t take it too far. When I was younger, I had a major crush on this girl, let’s call her Mandy. Mandy wanted nothing to do with me until another girl was all about me. All of a sudden, Mandy wanted me. She came to see me, and set it up so she could show this other girl that I was taken. Very freaking crafty, but I wasn’t adept enough to notice. Then she said she wanted an “open relationship”. I was not impressed at all with that shit, so I left. We got together again 2 years later and she played me with the same freaking tactics. It’s all fuckery. She wrecked my life twice (admittedly, I let her do it) and left me for dead. Ngl, I was devastated. I didn’t hook up with a girl for 4 years after that, and you know what? I chased my dream, realized it, and this bitch still tries to contact me to this day to fuck up my zone. Recognize the manipulation and reject it. Focus on you, and they will come crawling back, and let me tell you, being able to tell them to get fucked after all that that nonsense is fantastic.

FutureHappy2845 · 2021-06-27T17:56:27+00:00

I've had this happen to. I actually feel depressed and like shit each and every time I have a casual fuck encounter.

3rdiguy · 2021-07-03T13:25:15+00:00

I’m going on a 6 month purge just to bring my desire//urges under control and build up my masculine energy

SpaceNinjaDino · 2021-06-27T21:15:02+00:00

The worst case scenario is they get attached and move in. Now they are always around and will require more of you to do things for them. And you'll miss those lonely days where you could do anything else.

(Sex dolls cured my loneliness; just cuddle/fuck them for intimacy. Then with that edge off, do whatever is fun.)

Theextremecheapskate · 2021-06-29T15:34:22+00:00

I am a vrgin and i lately started considering the option of never having sex with a woman in my entire life

LincolnLawyer33301 · 2021-06-27T20:43:03+00:00

Women are vultures feeding on each other's scraps... Don't feed them

peguy2000 · 2021-06-28T06:49:49+00:00

Who wouldve thought mgtow monk is the only true way? Shocker.

Title	I might go voluntarily celibate for a while. Relationships and sex are killing me slowly.
Author	TheArmchairWanderer
Upvotes	1
Comments	51
Date	June 27, 2021 5:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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