Make me smile MGTOW2

PubliusVirgilius · 2021-07-29T22:17:17+00:00

Just appreciate the good times/dates you had with her and move on. I know its easier said, than done though.

But hate is just another side of love. Indifference is what you looking for.

Consider yourself also lucky. You dodged a bullet. Imagine you wouldn't find out and everything would continue for much longer.

Octavius18 · 2021-07-29T22:15:13+00:00

Never, ever date a single mom. Never, ever look for women on the Internet or dating sites. Ninety-nine times out of a hundred you will deeply regret it if you do. the desire for males wanting female mates is imprinted in our genes. There is NOTHING that you can do about that desire, except control it. I don't mean this to be rude, but you sound like a needy person and deliberately ignorant. What would possess you to bond with some woman's kids that you met on a dating website? If you want kids, adopt them. Secondly, you could not see that his woman was promiscuous from day one, much less a prostitute? That is something most guys can determine within ten minutes. You believed her lies because you WANTED to believe them. You have no one to blame but yourself. We've all done stupid things when it comes to women, so don't think you're the only one. You should be relieved that you aren't paying child support or worse.

collinblaster · 2021-07-29T22:11:58+00:00

That's fucked up. If it were me I'd take some time to recover emotionally, then get back to whatever fulfills your life.

Good luck man.

Shad_McGrimgravy · 2021-07-29T22:31:29+00:00

The way you're feeling is totally normal bro, and it just means you're human. You're feeling betrayed, maybe asking yourself "How could I not know?" It's painful to realize you've been living a delusion, but it's not your fault. You were honest and generous with her, and she was a lying vampire. It fucking sucks to feel like a sucker -- most men on this subreddit have at some point, myself included.

Look at the bright side (I know that's difficult right now): imagine if you found all this shit out after YEARS, or a marriage, and then got steamrolled by the divorce courts while she sat there and gave crocodile tears and falsely accused you of being abusive. You should consider yourself lucky you found out when you did, as some guys don't find out until after decades of lies, boatloads of cash, and missed opportunities to chase your dreams.

Now is a great opportunity to focus on yourself. What can you do to improve your life for the sake of yourself and nobody else?

You said to make you smile, so here's an oldie:

The other day I saw two kids beating up another kid in the alleyway, so I stepped in to help. He didn't stand a chance against all three of us.

lil6ost · 2021-07-30T01:10:12+00:00

you want the truth?

you just want someone to value you. people will tell you the same bullshit that its all about ho you feel about yourself and thats only half true. getting genuine love and affection from another person is incomparable to anything. thats what we all want thats what were were all promised by movies and songs. but society is wretched.

youve been dealt a shitty hand mate, nothing else to do but get back up and keep keepin on.

fuck the people telling you to appreciate the good times, fuck that. you dont have to be greatful for emotional leftovers.

go beast mode, get good at a hobby, try to focus on yourself to make yourself feel better. youll realize its dumb to be pining for a prostitute. as harsh as that sounds.

Ecl1ps3_O · 2021-07-29T22:44:19+00:00

Jesus said unto John, “Come forth, and receive eternal life.”

But John came fifth and got a toaster.

howhigh69 · 2021-07-30T05:37:34+00:00

once you realize that the mass majority of the women you will meet are either full blown hookers or wannabe hookers, you will be better off.

Such_Temporary_9597 · 2021-07-29T23:39:14+00:00

Of all those guys you paid the most sorry brother

TigPlaze · 2021-07-30T15:30:30+00:00

Ouch. That's rough. Women have done some rotten shit to me, but not one of them has ever been a prostitute behind my back. I did have one girlfriend who turned out to be a burglar. I'm not kidding. The bitch used to rob people's houses, and I didn't know about it.

Just take solace in knowing you've found the right path. From here on out, you build up your life for YOURSELF and not to attract any woman. Your money is YOURS, and no woman has any claim to any of it.

Serend1p1ty · 2021-07-30T10:01:54+00:00

Dude, I'm sorry about the pain you're going through.

However can you really call yourself a MGTOW for four years reading all these horror stories and not have thought about having some contingency measures/ vetting standards in place before you met these strangers on the internet?

Don't date single mums - you are never a priority to them
There's no such thing as a unicorn - its a myth, they don't exist
You met a hooker - this heavily implies that you're still looks orientated/ trophy wife hunting and failed to do the substantial character analysis you ought to be doing.

I understand this situation has fucked you up a little bit, but your story reads a bit like the story of someone who is about to be MGTOW'd instead of 4 whole years into the journey.

americanpower01 · 2021-07-30T05:43:37+00:00

Do you realise that female nature has no kindness, heart of empathy by default? However if your a good provider, they may act like they are nice but in reality they are all just sociopaths who prey on weak beta males while sleep with the strong masculine abusive bad boy Chad's.

Women can't love, it's impossible.

theoracleofosiris · 2021-07-30T00:29:55+00:00

One day it’s gonna be a fun story u tell over beers lol

perryurban · 2021-07-29T23:46:42+00:00

Try forgiveness. She was already the person she is before she met you.

Mysterious-Dirt-6506 · 2021-07-29T23:21:35+00:00

Yup, women are users and takers in every sense of the word. They feed of any weakness

Diligent-Education64 · 2021-07-29T22:52:05+00:00

Sorry dude but there were probably red flags you missed. Consider why you were raising a Thai hookers children and didn't know it? The little brain is thinking for the big brain.

You're not paying child support, right? You don't owe her money, right? She didn't call the cops, right? Then you're doing good, cut your loses and move on.

howhigh69 · 2021-07-30T05:36:08+00:00

You would have been better off getting a street walker or a crackwhore. Sex is sex and a nut is a nut. Doesn’t matter how you get it

ConsiderationOdd2929 · 2021-08-01T07:20:05+00:00

Well, did we LEARN OUR LESSON?

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it" - George Santayana

TonightFewstars · 2021-08-01T13:48:26+00:00

What did you expect? That she would abandon her main means of living just because you caught feelings?

She's gone back to catch another guy.

I'm not saying that she wouldn't have been a wonderful wife to you, but don't fool yourself.

Title	Make me smile MGTOW2
Author	mgtoown
Upvotes	1
Comments	30
Date	July 29, 2021 10:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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