She makes me crazy

DangZagnut · 2020-04-10T02:45:46+00:00

Better yourself.

I'll tell you my precise dating strategy in this scenario, and that would be to not care.

You care far too much about this 'relationship'. You need to just take things one day at a time, and this should be a side item in your life, not pursued as a main item and exclude everything else.

It's just a girl, you know, nothing special. Stop getting feels and stay reals. Do whatever you are going to do, and ignore her for awhile. It doesn't matter. Communicate when you have free time, nothing of value to do, and are bored.

GulfCoast_Ty · 2020-04-10T04:05:53+00:00

Kinda sounds like she's giving you just enough to keep you on the hook. Like she has something going on with someone else but she's keeping you in the corner just in case but idk.

KY0J1N_MGTOW · 2020-04-10T04:30:53+00:00

i think shes leading you on on purpose

detective-pikuaku · 2020-04-10T06:42:01+00:00

Walk away man. You have other opitions and they will grow over time

rakeshkook · 2020-04-10T09:03:26+00:00

You are not the only one she is trying to hook up. So don't take it too seriously. It is a classic mating strategy of female. An egg needs suitors. if there is not enough, she gives off indirect signals for you and other men also to pursue her. Don't think you are the only one - you are one among many. If she is serious and desperate, she will be more engaging and will 'chameleon' her way into your life somehow. It is a signal that you are asked to pursue her so that she can test you and shit-test you and discard if it doesn't work out. Don't fall for the trap.

GlobalAsshat · 2020-04-10T02:52:32+00:00

You have this mental fantasy about some feelings she has for you when for her it's just a casual friendship. Study the redpill if you want to end up being one of the guys she starts to chase, rather than just one she dangles carrots in front of. The guys that understand female nature and step it up are the ones that get the girl. She probably has 6 other guys she texts the same pictures too.

https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame

bieberblows · 2020-04-10T05:04:01+00:00

You are obviously not MGTOW. You are still a blue pill cuck.

She is not interested in you. Good chance she is screwing someone else while you orbit her. Just move on. If she had any interest in you then you wouldn't be wondering about her.

SpaceBollzz · 2020-04-10T10:25:59+00:00

She's doing the classic technique of giving you attention to make you feel good, then withdrawing that attention to leave you missing that attention and wanting some more.

She can control you this way, the fact you're here saying she makes you crazy proves that she's got you by the balls.

You need to do the same back to her, if she then starts acting like you are now then it would suggest she is interested. If she just dissappears and never contacts you again then she's been playing games with you just to satisfy her own need for attention.

If she initiates the next conversation then be cool about it, ghost her for a few hours but when you message her make it interesting so she wants more, then ghost her some more. Find that balance between keeping her interested but not overdoing it so that you look desperate.

If you end up meeting her for a drink (post quarantine) it's a good idea to cancel the date at the last minute or move the time because you have something going on much more important than her whatever that might be, just make something up.

Ar-Q-bid · 2020-04-10T12:45:31+00:00

Just my 2 cents, that sounds like my communication with some of my friends. Due to work schedule (and poor signal in my work area) and other obligations, sometimes I can’t see or reply to a message right away and may wait until the next day if it’s not urgent.

Doesn’t sound like she’s interested in you for intimacy but maybe she is being genuinely friendly. In any case treat her as you would treat a man. Keep it platonic

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-04-10T20:10:12+00:00

You are simply just one of many men that she uses to fill her validation addiction.

Stop validating.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2020-04-10T21:58:03+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtvmTu4zAMg

kriskros18 · 2020-04-10T22:02:19+00:00

Trust me, most of us have been...you.

She comes to you when her other orbiters don’t give her attention. She’s also gauging how desperate/needy you are.
(Remember the least invested has the most power in a relationship) That’s the “ignoring” part.

What you can do -

If you want to keep her in your life - give her a taste of her own medicine. Ignore her. And when she comes back seeking your validation, make her work for it.( one word responses, long silences in between ). Remember, we only value what we had to work hard for.
If you are tired of this drama, focus on yourself. she will automatically fade away. The trouble when you start enjoying your own company is keeping them away. They can smell the DGAF/self sufficiency from miles away and it makes them wet. This is what alphas do naturally.

Title	She makes me crazy
Author	thewildhn
Upvotes	1
Comments	34
Date	April 10, 2020 2:38 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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