This may seem weird but,has anyone ever considered using contracts or video taping a chick before sex to prove consent.

Jake4523 · 2020-07-19T17:45:29+00:00

Up here in Canada they toss that stuff out in court. Basically your fucked no matter what.

LonelyBobcat · 2020-07-19T18:00:44+00:00

no girl would want that. It would be an absolute mood killer first, and second it would be creepy as hell. On top of that they could get it thrown out in court and its just going to make you look more guilty

>oh em gee, this creepy guy raped me but he made me sign this contract, I didn't want to but he said if I don't he was going to snap my neck

Imagine going to court and saying 'I didn't rape her, see, she signed a paper', do you think people are going to not find that extremely suspicious? Even with video she can just say she was forced to say so, and that there's another take where she refused but you said she didn't do a good enough job. She'll refer to one time where she blinked as a moment where she thought you were going to hit her again.

plus shes not going to be acting all normal and happy regardless, like even if she puts up with it to get laid do you think she's going to be all preppy and smiles? She's going to be annoyed and weirded out at this point so in the video its going to look like a girl under duress.

and i mean imagine that ending up in court, this video of the girl looking awkward as hell barely consenting, only verbally consenting, but clearly being uncomfortable. I mean hell this could be the reason she decides to press charges, she could very easily get laid, feel it was really suspicious that you made her do that video afterwards and the go to the police talking about how uncomfortable the situation was.

DangZagnut · 2020-07-19T17:18:56+00:00

I don't really date anymore, but when I used to I always rolled video on anyone I was with.

downwardlyspiraling · 2020-07-19T18:31:56+00:00

Roll video or audio without her knowing. Make sure you get her to clearly state her intent, something to the effect that she wants the encounter to happen. So you could say something like “tell me what you want” etc.

It’s way to easy for women to claim whatever they want later on.

I would even do this in 2 party consent states. If you don’t know the legalities of 1 party or 2 party consent for audio recording in your state look them up.

But yes always record without her knowing. Don’t tell her about it and for gods sake do not show anyone, except your lawyer of course.

Rich_Chad · 2020-07-19T18:51:53+00:00

In Egypt a martial contract is legally defined as consent so a married man can never be charged with any sexual offense towards his wife. Egypt has many flaws but me too isn't one of them.

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2020-07-20T01:47:44+00:00

They can change their mind halfway through.

Just bone chicks who are sane or use hookers.

Abstractteapot · 2020-07-20T16:07:55+00:00

There was a guy who used to do that, for personal safety. But that doesn't change the fact that people can be forced to give consent, or that they might change their mind after.

I don't see how you could use this. I think if you make sure you're sober, and you're both happy it should be fine and in most cases it is. Just try to avoid sleeping with people who seem possessive or crazy, I'm afraid that's all you can do really.

mpk80 · 2020-07-20T05:17:41+00:00

A few years ago there were consent apps for phones. Both parties would have the app and electronically sign. They were big at colleges. Not sure any more.

annoying_butterflies · 2020-07-20T14:19:45+00:00

yes. then id proceed to upload it to pornhub!

spaceman_spliff777 · 2020-07-20T14:12:35+00:00

Funny how dave Chappelle covered this 20 years ago with “the love contract.”

Tenth_10 · 2020-07-20T09:30:45+00:00

Honestly, the best bet would have been to save any electronic conversation showing her genuine interest before meeting you. But I fear you'de be fucked no matter what if she says otherwise. So the only way is to safely vet the women you're sleeping with.

IDKY666 · 2020-07-19T22:52:37+00:00

That pretty much goes out of the window when you realize that consent can be withdrawn at any time.

As for the video, I'm very sure there are laws about that.

Tuxmando · 2020-07-19T21:11:23+00:00

I’ll add that consent can be withdrawn at any moment. A video of her giving consent is worthless.

heyyy-kiddo · 2020-07-19T20:44:18+00:00

No.While I agree some bitches deserve this it's a mood killer and sounds creepy. Best way is if you text? Give her a " playful " massage?

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Ricky469 · 2020-07-23T09:29:42+00:00

Living in a one party recording state I do keep any conversations online and texts. Making sure you do not coerce or threaten and be careful what you write and say. I do not engage in sex if the woman is intoxicated. Being discreet and not making her feel regret are better than a contract.

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