What do notice being Red Pill'd?

5gil135 · 2020-03-21T12:51:11+00:00

A friend of mine wife always try's to set me up with her friends. I decline. Then she offers that several of these women have fake breasts as that is supposed to entice me.

I politely decline. When she asks why? I tell her that I've lived with women before. She gets this confused look on her face.

Other times she implies that I could just hook up with them and then see how it goes. As if sex is going to change my mind. Hooking up is more trouble than its worth.

Yasai101 · 2020-03-21T12:46:56+00:00

4 is wrong. Smart people learn from their mistakes, wise learn from the mistake of others.

Edit. No idea why my text is in bold Edit #2 I now know why.

kriskros18 · 2020-03-21T13:11:51+00:00

Amen bro.

Perspective from my BP days:

My ex did this every time I wanted to hang with my boys. And trust me, they are very, very good at this emotional manipulation and shaming game. The mental pressure was so painful and real, my BP a$$ succumbed multiple times.

Hence my true and tested tips (for my younger (BP) brothers):

Set your boundaries early on and stick with them. Call her out when not respected.
Each boys time taken away means one less GNO for her. And shame the process with no mercy. Tell her you heard/know what happens at clubs/bars during GNO.
If she persists, offer her to tag along. While out, pay most attention to your boys. This is your time with them. Be prepared to deal with the DRAMA during and afterwards. It absolutely can be done.

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-03-21T13:21:06+00:00

"Couples want you to be in a relationship"

They must be in the initial romantic phase. Some of my friends who've been married for 5+ years envy my freedom.

"Your friend's wife will dislike you"

One of my friends pretty much told me outright his wife didn't want him hanging out with me because I'm a "bad influence". I think what triggered her was when he said how much he envies my freedom (see above).

"You stop getting invited"

Blessing in disguise for an introvert like me. I'd rather hang out with three or four buddies than attend large gatherings. Heck, social media has helped tremendously to satisfy my need for companionship with like-minded people.

Carlos_Kingston · 2020-03-21T17:48:30+00:00

No. 2 is basically Bill Maher's stand-up skit. The wives or girlfriends don't like having him around their man because they see him as a free slave bringing the great news of freedom. 😁

BoxofMistakes · 2020-03-21T18:00:38+00:00

Number eight definitely. When women get equal treatment it causes an error in their brain. They don't even know what's wrong so they freak out. They fall back on their only response and call you names like predator, incel or psychopath because they truly don't understand it. When someone knows exactly what to expect from women it sets off every alarm in their heads.

Togotfury · 2020-03-21T19:28:44+00:00

I've noticed the overwhelming anti-male bias of society.

Bugatti_Stacks · 2020-03-22T01:47:29+00:00

My friends and I used to have a Whiskey Wednesday back in college. This one bar would sell whiskey half price in any mix drink. It was purely guys night only. We had a blast talking about anything and everything.

Then 2 of the guys gfs wanted to join and see what the fun was about. Yup, ruined it. Wednesday nights started turning into couples night. Some things can't be discussed or it may offend one of the girls.

A complete metamorphosis of a good, fun, and no holds barred night turned into its complete opposite.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2020-03-21T12:56:47+00:00

Yikes to number 3. I've not had that happen to me, but I've heard of it. They may be 1 in the eyes of the church and government, but not when it comes to MY money. There are 3 plates on the table, I'm only paying for mine.

People have given up on number 5 with me. They know I'm non committal.

Number 8, what does it mean to be off like a shot?

Holdoooo · 2020-03-21T15:53:24+00:00

I notice that a woman plays innocent and helpless to have her idiot boyfriend follow her and do what she wants done. It’s like hypnosis. women know how to hypnotize a man.

I was watching an interview with George Carlin and he recalled how his mother told his brother “I’m gonna make something out of him”

Also, I’ve overheard women blatantly say “trainable” in regards to certain guys. When talking amongst themselves.

WeAreMoreThanUs · 2020-03-22T00:27:05+00:00

People want you to mimic their life decisions in order to validate theirs so they can avoid the pain of admitting to delusions.

5gil135 · 2020-03-22T06:27:07+00:00

-Couples want you to be in a relationship, it's as though they want you to share the experience.

I answer, I'm 12 years into an average divorce raping so I've been living in a small one bedroom apartment sleeping on a boxspring for a few years. Kinda crashing at a friends house for the next few years. The boxspring was the only furniture in the house other than a computer resting on a cardboard box. I do have furniture now. It's cheap and portable but hey :) I say I might plan on looking for a girlfriend in about 10 more years when I'm financially capable of having an adult relationship. I'm technically a well paid guy so I'll be able to afford a good life in a few years so I'm optimistic about it. I'm hoping to find a way to get back into my kids life once it happens too. From experience the parent with the house and all the money gets the kids attention. When one is destitute, they stick to the one who can provide for them... so I'm hoping once my ex's and my situations reverse and she's suddenly destitute, and I'm suddenly swimming in money, well, I'm hoping they accept some of my invitations to come over then. I'm thinking me having a girlfriend might up the odds anyways. So I might look into it for that reason anyways.

When couples ask about this and I try to tell them this they just get angry and stop talking to me. It really has never gone over well lol.

InMyMoufPlz · 2020-03-21T15:36:13+00:00

what do i notice? music lyrics.

one of my newest favorite music groups is Great Good Fine Ok. holy chit, their music is so catchy, but so blue pilled. they literally have a song called “Find Yourself” about dude that’s wants his acquaintance dream girl to go out and find herself with other guys and then settle down with him.

i’ll post partial lyrics below. i still listen to and recommend their music, but that’s what i notice most.

[Verse 2] Did I lose you? I can change But you're free to turn and walk the other way I won't bruise you either way I don't know if there will be another day

[Pre-Chorus] Tell me what's on your mind I can't get you off mine Are we over or meant to be? Don't need to know right now Timing will work it out Can't let you make those mistakes with me

[Chorus] So don't let someone find you until you find yourself

ChefFranku · 2020-03-21T18:22:17+00:00

Honestly my Dad asks me in relation to #5 more than my Mom does

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-03-21T19:07:16+00:00

All true. Good observations👍🍺

Tannhausergate2017 · 2020-03-21T20:43:28+00:00

Lol. Drive all night is a common lyric. What was that song I think from the 90s that said, “I’d walk one thousand miles to show up at your door”?

7firewire · 2020-03-21T23:23:16+00:00

Can confirm this is true. All of it.

Frankbond123bond · 2020-03-22T02:33:27+00:00

this is extremely true with some of my more recently dated-up mates. They have been trying to set me up at events, and now weddings. My mates more down that path, the ones with kids and mortgages, all envy my freedom and say the same shit. Love the kids but if I had my time again...

Couldnt agree more with this post. So many of my mates gfs over the years have hated me. lol

2020-03-25T05:25:50+00:00

Plenty of things. An overwhelming amount in fact. From the most trivial of things like women’s only areas in gyms (despite having no such area for men), to the insane bias present in education and the media, right down to the inequalities in the legal system. Even talking with blue pilled men, you can see how they’re geared towards gynocentrism and they can’t even admit it to themselves. I think this is why red pill rage happens. It fundamentally changes your perspective on virtually everything you knew prior.

Carlos_Kingston · 2020-03-25T09:42:16+00:00

Search this on YouTube: Bill Maher Married Men and Single Men - The Difference

lowrads · 2020-03-22T21:21:31+00:00

I think a lot of masculinist or MGTOW type criticisms fall afoul of confusing ends and means, almost as much as the structural conditions they are criticising do.

As for your seventh point, I don't know a single man that regrets having kids in the long run. Kids aren't the problem. They are often used as a bludgeon, but that is hardly their fault. Women often use kids as a means to some ends, and the usual social evils follow. Kids are just ends in themselves, and should be regarded as such, as everyone should be.

DeakinFrost · 2020-03-21T20:32:52+00:00

that people don't proof read their shit and illiteracy is in the majority now,

and usually those same people complain that they can't get ahead in life

What do notice being Red Pill'd?

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Title	What do notice being Red Pill'd?
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