We shared vacations with an Uncle and his kids (our cousins) last summer. The uncle is a retired State Attorney General- the top prosecutor in the State who reports directly to the governor. He defended this seat in Statewide elections for many years.

Basically, he is one smart fucking dude with acute observational and political skills despite his advanced age. He has gone up against organized mobsters, won a death penalty verdict and then sat in the front row and watched them die. He said he felt he owed it to them :)

So he is not just smart, he is Alpha as fuck.

We see each other just about every 2 years. This summer, we met and shook hands again and as I took a firm grip and met his eyes he almost immediately squinted at me suspiciously.

Just about 20 minutes into the conversation we had an issue with herding the Cats that are my family and we couldn't decide what to do the next day. Somebody suggested the amusement park and I immediately grabbed the phone from my wife, called the park and verified they were open, directions and hours.

Hanging up, my Uncle suddenly asked:

"Blue, when did you suddenly get so attractive?"

Dead silence for several seconds while I smirked lightly and remained silent.

"There! Where did you learn that expression? Two years ago you would be chattering nonstop about everything you are doing and now you have THAT expression. OK, what did you do? Did you take a Dale Carnegy class or something?"

I laughed, kinoed my wife on her upper arm (like co-conspirators) and maintaining eye contact with her said softly: "He is good. That's not a bad guess."

"Blue unplugged and took the Red Pill," my wife offered helpfully.

My uncle looked more thoughtful and turned his eyes on me with a smirk of his own. He looked at me for several seconds before mildly replying with raised eyebrows:

"Are you going to tell me why you think you live in a computer generated world, or do I have to ask?"

Everybody laughed but Alpha me was not about to submit to a cross-examination without getting something out of it myself.

"First tell me what you think has changed about me." I took my wife's hand in mine and kissed it gallantly. She rolled her eyes and shook her head but I could see her blushing slightly.

My uncle started counting on his fingers:

"First the way you take charge. You don't just yell over, it's, your, your, your, you act like a leader now, in charge. You make eye contact. You didn't do it right before. You have this confident thing going on about you. Second, you don't interrupt, you just don't....you don't talk as much but you listen. You don't talk a mile a minute and interrupt. You are VERY different.

Third, you and (Mrs. Blue) are obviously getting along different than you were. Look at you two, did you get divorced or something?"

After the laughs he continued.

"I didn't even mention that belly of yours that is gone and...(grabbing my arms) holy fuck, you have been working out, you are built like brick shithouse."

"Are you taking Steroids?"

I laughed again: "No, my BMI would be way lower if I was on the juice, just attending regular worship services at the iron temple. Mrs. Blue is going too."

He nodded his head impatiently: "OK, so...the Matrix....."

Long/Short, we talked in private later and he could not believe that guys are not told how to deal with women's bullshit (his word for "shit tests") or the dangers of losing your identity to your "love."

His response: "Blue, none of this stuff is new. You should take a look at Briffault's Law and use that in your Red Pill thing."

My response?

"The female, not the male determines sexual access in the animal kingdom and where the female derives no benefit from such association then no association shall exist."

Edit

For those who missed it, this was not a bragging post. Each and every one of you will be noticed like this if you read the books on the sidebar and implement them into your life. You are not likely to have anybody say much to you but you will be noticed on exactly these traits my Uncle identified. I was just lucky enough to have an older guy who is a lot more aware than I ever was who noticed and spit out Red Pills like candy on the issue of what is attractive. So I wanted to share them with y'all. Pay attention to what he noticed about me and notice that NONE of this is very difficult. NONE of this is remarkable or even a huge change. Most of it is just Shut The Fuck Up and pay attention. This is EASY.

These are a few of the things he identified as attractive that I was doing differently than 2 years ago:

  1. Leader of the group
  2. Takes Charge when needed
  3. Good eye contact
  4. Firm handshake
  5. Calm, smooth eye movements
  6. Confidence
  7. Quiet, few words
  8. Backs off when leadership not needed
  9. Talks slowly and deliberately
  10. Attentive/Pays attention to others speaking
  11. Uses nonverbal communication
  12. Sexy and confident with women
  13. Light hearted
  14. Fun to be around
  15. Controlled emotions.
  16. Not a whiny bitch....