[FR] - Implementing dread

TrainingTheBrain · 2015-07-13T14:27:28+00:00

Has it really been that long since you spoke to a girl?

It seems like you analyzed the shit out of a simple interaction. This is what MRP is looking to correct, Married Men who become fumbling fucks when women speak to them.

Cute girl talks to you, sweet Man, chat it up. No need to tell the wife, you just spoke to a girl, you didn't spend the whole game chatting or getting drinks together.

Seems weird to me that you tell your wife a girl spoke to you for 30 minutes instead of not telling her and just enjoying the game.

Going to the game alone will build some dread in her, telling her you interacted with a chick sounds like Look girls talk to me, aren't you jealous?!?!

On the Positive side you did Apply and gain experience and there is no substitute for that. Talk to girls, talk to guys, talk to people and interact with them and analyze the field and ensure you are implementing the TRP knowledge you've gained to ensure you're in control and directing where things are going or at least confidently adapting to the situation to be a guy other guys want to be like/around and girls want to sleep with.

In a 5 minute conversation an RP guy can make a BP guy's wife recognize what she's missing and wants in her life. I've had my wife's friends straight up tell me they wished their dude was more like me, in front of the guy. It comes from having a ridiculous amount of warranted and unwarranted amount of confidence in yourself and what you're saying/doing.

Don't think too much, just experience and take mental notes and adapt accordingly. Whether you text your wife about it or not is a personal decision I guess. You had her standing by when you got home so something is working.

IanIronwood · 2015-07-13T14:43:04+00:00

Passive Dread always helps pull the trigger. For bonus points you should have asked the girl to take a selfie with you to send to your wife. All very innocent - but when she sees you relaxed and comfortable with a pretty girl, that initiates her mate guarding sexual reflex. And yeah, the woman was likely flirting with you. Sports wives are natural Alpha Widows, even though they married the Alpha. There is an art to a married man flirting with a married woman in such a venue, a kind of joust that helps assure each party that they still have the skills to attract and select a worthy mate. While this rarely leads to an infidelity, it is also the prime way in which married women search for clandestine partners.

Of course most married men are completely clueless about this, as they are unaware of the contexts. But if you realize what's going on, and that this is likely a friendly joust, not a serious duel, you can both use that to your advantage. A "harmless" selfie, or a really GOOD hug to a pretty woman in a public venue can do wonders without crossing any lines with your wife.

But she has to know about it, or it won't create the necessary doubt her hamster needs to survive.

KyfhoMyoba · 2015-07-13T15:54:09+00:00

The best I can tell is that she was leaning in to talk to me.

That's one of the best IOIs there is right there.

tbknow · 2015-07-13T16:37:19+00:00

Not to hijack, but what does it mean when your wife sees you flirting with hot chicks and instead it makes her more distant?

theultmatecad · 2015-07-13T18:32:40+00:00

Dread works better when wife sees it or discovers it. Telling her isnt particularly effective

Title	[FR] - Implementing dread
Author	angels_fan
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	July 13, 2015 2:13 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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