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On arguing

willpoDO

June 4, 2015
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/r/MarriedRedPill
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Title On arguing
Author

willpoDO

Upvotes 1
Comments 9
Date June 4, 2015 5:49 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/38joaz/on_arguing/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/on-arguing.201758
https://theredarchive.com/post/201758
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Comments

[–]KnoxvillynUnplugging0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

if you speak like you write....good lord....are you a woman? this reads how i hear women speak.....

[–]RPAlternate42MRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like I'm reading a facebook post from a 14 year old girl.

[–]RPAlternate42MRP APPROVED0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are 2 words that describe what you are doing:

DEER

and

JADE

[–]Countpudyoola 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You need to really work more on your foundations. You sound like you're in the middle of a firefight and wanting us to look at the radar and tell you left or right.

Holding frame is never irrelevant. Walk the fuck off if you must. The kid's on the floor crying and banging their feet... you step off let them cry themselves out.

[–]willpoDO[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

for those who choose to deride the way a person speaks, thanks for helping.

Others: I am describing very briefly a common situation. if you can constructively help I would appreciate it.

Essentially either she or I will disagree about something. Doesnt matter what. She almost immediately starts what feels like a pre-prepared speech about how I always argue with her.
Are there any specific thoughts on how to break this cycle either before it starts again or as it is starting?

[–]TrainingTheBrain 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Give a specific example.

I could say just walk away but I don't understand the situation.

I very rarely argue, it's fucking pointless and more or less just a way to release emotion on another person.

If I say I want to go for a run then eat dinner and she says she wants to eat and then have me run. I will go over the pros and cons then most likely decide to run first because I'd puke if not and I tell her to eat without me and I'll eat when I get back. No argument.

an example would help us help you.

[–]whinemoreplease 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Try not being so fucking lazy and putting in some actual work yourself. Take a 5 day timeout before posting again.

The other guys have given you the basic advice -- don't do it. The pre-reqs will give you strategies on how.

[–]Countpudyoola 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only way not to argue with someone determined is to not play. You break the cycle by not continuing it. You could say something sarcastic but it'll have a random effect with an ingrained pattern. Best is to break off quickly the moment she says anything hinting at arguing.

[–]whinemoreplease -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. Read the sidebar and pre-requisites. And you getting butthurt because you write like a bitch?

I'm removing this incredibly low quality and low effort post.

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