Am I wrong or right for telling her this?

Parzival_007 · 2022-02-09T15:50:47+00:00

Not really bruh, when someone is touching you inappropriately, you FREEZE. It's natural. Fighting back comes later, but till most control has been transfered towards the perpetrator. I am guessing the shock part was more because most attackers are people you know.

I think you shouldn't apologize though, sounds like you were really trying to understand. Advice was good though but watch out for her company a bit. If she was with some abusive guys then her friends can't be good advisors. Just my opinion though.

ConsiderationOdd2929 · 2022-02-09T17:18:07+00:00

You are correct to tell her to fight back, but you cannot assume the situation.

The only woman I ever met who evaded a violent rape encounter did so because she had a ninja star in her pocket.

Mr_R-I-P · 2022-02-09T19:43:26+00:00

Are you retarded? Go to the end of the rainbow and then GFYU. If your partner says it was raped you do not pull political shit. Unlese you are pos.

mikesteane · 2022-02-09T23:17:16+00:00

A lot of red flags here. I would walk.

Melkor7410 · 2022-02-09T14:48:47+00:00

It is super situational. If there's more than one attacker, someone has a gun, or knife to her throat, and fighting would obviously lead to death, you have to weigh whether you want to die or be raped. What about if he drugged her? She may not be capable of fighting now. Or if she was drunk and taken advantage of? If she has a legitimate fear for her life, and she'd rather be raped than die, then I guess she's getting raped. I fail to see how this is a men's rights issue though.

BasedAlliance935 · 2022-02-09T14:16:21+00:00

You did the right thing. If someone is being raped or abused in any way,shape or form than they have every right to self-defense

Ohnoes34 · 2022-02-09T17:40:46+00:00

they can try to fight but.... men are stronger most of the time. If she puts up a fight the guy can always beat her into coma and then rape her. Sad truth. Best option for a Girl / anybody who is in a violent situiation is to run and Scream. Get to a place where other people are.

OldEgalitarianMRA · 2022-02-09T15:24:27+00:00

Sex without verbal consent is rape. If you're not certain, you're playing with fire. If she's drunk, it's rape.

bushmasterblaster · 2022-02-09T16:12:33+00:00

Stay away from her. Too much baggage and seems to have some screws loose

ApprehensiveMail8 · 2022-02-09T20:31:12+00:00

I'm guessing she's hearing this like you expect her to fight for her honor to prove herself to you or something.

You're just worried about her safety, but I'm guessing that's how she's hearing it.

YouLookGoodInASmile · 2022-02-10T12:35:20+00:00

Sex without consent is rape. A lot of people freeze in fight or flight. It doesnt matter if you fight back or not, if you didnt consent it's rape.

Title	Am I wrong or right for telling her this?
Author	ArchaeJay
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	February 9, 2022 2:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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