Considering hypergamy is a thing, Why shouldn't men cheat or have multiple partners?

DifficultPapaya3038 · 2024-02-07T16:59:52+00:00

Polygamist societies have been statistically proven to be more violent and that’s why I don’t support the idea of it.

If you create a polygamist country/society all the women get concentrated towards the top 5-10 percentile man and when you take away dating/mating prospects from the bottom 90% of men they tend to get violent because their “needs” aren’t being met, mix that in with economic strife and other social problems and you’re practically begging for extremism/terrorism, lowkey we can see this playing out in western society right now.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2024-02-07T16:59:07+00:00

Maybe men should expect more from women than just to be pretty.

Frird2008 · 2024-02-07T17:22:26+00:00

It's immoral & unethical for any person regardless of gender to cheat. That's a golden rule my brotherhood & I follow all the time. We stick to one person

Milk--and--honey · 2024-02-07T16:51:08+00:00

If your wife is loyal to you then you should be loyal to her.

If she's cheating then go ahead and cheat

rSlashGigi · 2024-02-07T16:45:18+00:00

Having multiple partners is allowed, but most people don’t want to be with someone who has multiple partners. Cheating is having multiple partners, but lying about it. Thats just plain immoral.

Sea2Chi · 2024-02-07T17:22:30+00:00

You can be, you just have to be with a partner who is on the same page as you.

There are successful poly relationships out there and there are people who cheat on their partners.

Don't be or date the latter.

If you want to sleep with other people though, that's fine, just make sure the people you're sleeping with are all on board with that idea.

However, if you then turn around and demand your partner be exclusive with you while you sleep with other people, I think most folks would rightly call you out for being hypocritical.

Nihi1986 · 2024-02-07T18:19:01+00:00

Don't justify it, if you want to do it that's your decission but a moral man with values and honor won't justify betrayal and lying.

mrkpxx · 2024-02-07T16:57:24+00:00

A man likes to have several women and women prefer to share one dominant man. But no state can be maintained like this.

Inskription · 2024-02-07T16:58:20+00:00

I get where you are coming from, it's that men have to still be traditional and dare I say uphold the religious view of marriage, whereas women can divorce just to get with a richer man and that's seen as ok.

GhettoJamesBond · 2024-02-07T17:01:17+00:00

I don't think we should be talking about dating on here.

HotPrior477 · 2024-02-07T17:16:04+00:00

Cause it's disrespectful.

Radiant_glow_23 · 2024-02-07T17:21:31+00:00

What kind of people do you know that support women cheating? Men nor woman should cheat in a monogamous relationship. You don’t get to have your cake and eat it too. Have the benefits and security of a monogamous relationship while having an ‘insurance plan’

Grimmjow18 · 2024-02-07T17:31:03+00:00

Just going to leave this here.

https://www.indiatoday.in/lifestyle/what-s-hot/story/50-of-women-in-relationships-have-a-back-up-partner-in-mind-dear-men-please-note-1611048-2019-10-19

Acousmetre78 · 2024-02-07T19:00:10+00:00

Why was this post shut down?

Odd-Luck7658 · 2024-02-08T01:57:04+00:00

They do.

Title	Considering hypergamy is a thing, Why shouldn't men cheat or have multiple partners?
Author	Acousmetre78
Upvotes	7
Comments	31
Date	February 7, 2024 4:31 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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