It seems like a sub for women to bring up any trivial issue and they get support. Obviously I've been raised to be somewhat stoic and to me some posts are laughable but maybe we could use some of that here instead of the moaning and finger pointing ( which is important too). I have problems 1, I'm an alcoholic by night and hate myself when I wake up but get over that in a few hours. 2, I'm tryst to start a relationship with a girl. We've definitely clicked a few times and I left Bolivia to be with her in Lima but she says she's having family problems and is very distracted. I'm in a town half an hour away and I really like her but she continues to be distant. Am I being a dumbass? Unfortunately she's very beautiful too