In advance i wanna say that i really dont want to complain about anything thats happening in my life and that what i am experiencing applies to both Women and Men i interact with. Over the last few years i increasingly disliked going out with people that arent my best friends because whenever i am not actively drawing attention to my existence i immediately fade away into obscurity for the rest of the evening and everyone becomes annoyed and dismissive. Again, by no means do i want to downplay the societal challenges that women have to face. I am aware that getting a lot of inappropriate negative attention is terrible. I just want to say that as a guy, the certainty that if i just stopped trying to interact with people, i could live out my entire life without a single person, female or male, ever talking to me on their own accord is quite exhausting.