I just need to vent. Today I had my 2nd hearing in establishing a paternity agreement with my son's mother that started in August this year. It started when she said her new fiance and her were going to part time relocate to Nicaragua. Before this we had no legal agreement and were amicable about most things dealing with our child but I hired a lawyer to get a paternity so she couldn't up and take him out of country. The two hearings since then have nothing to do with establishing a paternity! It's a fucking pissing match between our lawyers and currently our financials! Today her argument was that she is unable to pay for her lawyer. I can provide more details if needed but the fucking judge's decision was that I am responsible for her fees! $6k as of now and his reasoning was that I have a 401k and showed the ability to afford it where she hasn't! This shit just seems so ass backwards to me and now I am literally paying someone trying to take my son away from me. I'm stressing out beyond belief but will make this work somehow. I have shit self esteem but the one thing I know is I'm a great great fucking dad and I'll go to the end of the universe to not lose one moment with my son. Fuck.