I was falsely accused of violence after I filed for custody. The lies my ex kept making finally burned her, when she convinced the Army that I was threatening her at lunch. I was on camera, witnesses, and had access badge logs showing an air-tight alibi.

Even though the case was dismissed with prejudice and sealed, the internet lives forever. I've repeatedly been asked about my history of violence at jobs and while they never stated they passed on me because of my arrest, it's been hell with jobs hiring me.

So when someone is accused of rape and they clear their name, don't forget that the chapter of their life is NOT closed, it will continue to haunt them.

I'm not suicidal, but I do often wish I died in combat in Africa instead of just injured. It spiraled me into losing my fiance, meeting this wicked woman, and then having my life systematically destroyed with no repercussions to her for her actions.

Even after law enforcement has pressed multiple charges against her for DV against me at a later dates, each time the DA has looked for excuses to drop the charges she is facing.

Back to the point, these guys who are found innocent of rape. They don't get to just pick up where they left off, they have to deal with their names on the internet. Don't forget that and don't let others judge them for it.