Let’s list every hardship men go through

Fffgfggfffffff · 2025-01-25T08:34:47+00:00

The ideas of men are more privileged than women .

That Men made the system and culture only to help themselves.

Not the average men.

Average men didn’t want to go to war .

Average men didn’t started war.

Average men were expected to go to war by both women and men.

Average men have no say to not go to war though out history.

It is always the powerful rulers like kings and female rulers to decide and they started war.

Average men have no power but to fulfill the expectations given them by both women and men in society to do those things .

Average men were not given enough empathy for war related issues, even though war effects average average men more so than all other groups .

its always women and children but no average men .

( by some people’s definition of oppression, men throughout history are oppressed too.)

— If today’s world is still patriarchy

men build the patriarchy and the one with power , why can’t men even criticize women base on facts ?

Look around reddit , so many men hating base on generalization and one sided stories are acceptable.

But criticizing women based on facts aren’t acceptable , who really have more privileges and power in this supposed “patriarchy”?

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Expectation for men and boys are taught by women in education, majority women in education are teaching boys and girls .

Young People more likely to want to fit in to school culture.

Significant_Board674 · 2025-01-25T01:34:09+00:00

Women from 40 years ago can call r ape on you. Some states will allow that nonsense

Mortalcouch · 2025-01-25T01:49:57+00:00

Lack of bodily autonomy - FGM is banned (as it should be), but MGM (male genital mutilation) is still very common. Also, we have to sign up for the draft where women don't.

PuzzleheadedSlide774 · 2025-01-25T06:21:23+00:00

Sexual harassment is one and as a man you’re expected not only to just take it but also be be appreciative of it. Also when you speak out be sure you’ll hear that women get “raped daily” if not have it dismissed as bragging.

TKD1989 · 2025-01-25T02:35:11+00:00

First, to be expected to take dangerous and unpleasant jobs like construction, plumbing, roofing, mining, lumberjacking, farming, and drilling with no one to thank them for their hard work in such thankless job environments

First, to be drafted in the military or serve as local police whether or not they're fully mentally prepared to to those jobs. Often to the risk of their lives while labeled as "killers" by the media

Bokoman91 · 2025-01-25T05:26:30+00:00

unwanted responsibility

unable to express negative emotion

liking pink makes you gay which means majority of world population hate you because they for assume you are gay

you always first to be dispose

( yes im gay dosent mean am not man )

Dee2Slimeyyy · 2025-01-26T06:51:49+00:00

Mental Health Stigma: There's often pressure for men to conform to traditional norms of toughness and stoicism. As a result, seeking help for mental health struggles like depression, anxiety, or stress can be difficult, leading to higher rates of unaddressed mental health issues.

Expectations of Masculinity: Society often places heavy expectations on men to be providers, protectors, and emotionally strong. This can result in internal conflict, self-doubt, and struggles with identity or purpose.

Workplace Pressure: Men are often expected to be career-driven and financially successful. This can contribute to burnout, stress, and strained personal relationships, especially when work demands conflict with family or personal life.

Physical Health Pressures: While women’s health is often discussed more openly, men’s health issues—such as prostate cancer, heart disease, and mental health struggles—can sometimes be overlooked or under-addressed, both in terms of healthcare and public awareness.

Relationship and Family Expectations: Men may feel pressured to be the main providers in relationships, and this can lead to stress, financial burdens, or dissatisfaction in family dynamics.

Legal and Custodial Challenges: In some regions, men may face bias in family court decisions, especially regarding child custody, which can lead to feelings of helplessness or injustice.

Isolation and Lack of Emotional Support: Men often experience social isolation due to difficulty forming close, emotionally supportive friendships or expressing vulnerability.

Single monster incineration- this sensitized the men giving him increased female tendencies and also having awkwardness towards women. This also makes the women hate the men because it then becomes competitive.

No father Gooning- Having no father completely destroys every aspect of that men's growing life, he doesn't know how to act as a man or the frequency isn't as strong as it should be.

Family problems- stepfathers in that middle aged man's life will completely destroy and shatter that man's life every single time to try to mold that man the exact way the stepdad wants it, he doesn't consider anything the younger man has to say, creating thoughts of that young man's life being a complete lie and often being lied to to the point to where the younger man usually ends killing himself or somebody else. Then the stepfather creates bad versions of that person to where society has to view him that way or he will end up in the system while the system is already breaking him down for the system

And many more. Real man have it terrible. The system and family don't make it any better.

Born-Leadership4526 · 2025-01-26T01:30:48+00:00

To be honest this kind of thing is what has caused the feminist anger. They concentrate on what they believe is unfair even though most of it is utter rubbish

If we start doing the same as the feminists we will then become them and I for one am not in favour of that

We as men should be standing together as one. We should be supporting each other and looking at how amazing we all are. Just look at all we go through and most of us come out the other side fighting strong

Don’t concentrate on negatives it will only breed hate

Plastic_Town_7060 · 2025-01-25T02:09:21+00:00

That's not the only thing feminists complain about. They also complain about sexual harassment (which they've stated starts at a very young age, around aged 10 or younger), stalking, being murdered by men, being dehumanized, extremely harsh beauty standards, they're only value is looks, even seen feminists complain about losing custody of their kids in the family courts due to parental alienation, which they claim, with evidence, that parental alienation is invoked by men 6x more and abusive fathers often win custody of their kids when parental alienation is invoked by fathers. Supposedly they believe the courts are in favor of men.

For men, it's not being taken seriously as DV victims, rape victims, rising beauty standards, falling behind in education and society as a whole, being seen as pedos/predators/perverts/rapists/abusers often as default. Men are the expendable gender, despite what feminists claim. Still often mocked for showing emotions, despite people saying, "it's okay for men to show emotions". And the increasing notion that men aren't needed in society.

coming2grips · 2025-01-26T02:12:03+00:00

Why? Are you looking for a list to debate against?

Naive-Ad1268 · 2025-01-26T11:26:12+00:00

Indeed man. Common, why can't we cry?? Why can't we get compliments? If I compliment some guy, they will think of myself strange.

jules_jokes · 2025-01-26T02:11:56+00:00

Really your complaint about not getting flowers, how about men build communities with each other that make you feel welcomed and supported. Crazy idea, right?! If you want flowers so bad, buy for your friends, or buy yourself some. And feminism is more than just complaining about the reasons you listed. You're just ignorant and ignore the other things feminism brings up. It is more than just complaining about periods, women go through hardships too.

Legal-Cockroach7746 · 2025-01-27T23:09:13+00:00

“Women Cost more!!1!!” Dawg you don’t need makeup

Available-Reward-823 · 2025-01-29T13:17:36+00:00

I think your issue lies with other men. Stop caring what women think so much lol.

Oskarkf · 2025-01-25T08:00:43+00:00

I've received plenty of flowers. Friendships that provide that kind of consideration are possible.

This is missery content and it will neither help you nor your course. Let's talk about the problems and the underlying structures of them, instead of listing shit that makes us sad

Title	Let’s list every hardship men go through
Author	Shackles_YT
Upvotes	103
Comments	33
Date	January 25, 2025 1:27 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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