Being an Asian guy sucks

Negative-Object-2410 · 2024-11-09T04:51:14+00:00

Asian men are some of the most marginalized people in society, the media has tried to emasculate them for over a century

God-Emperor_773 · 2024-11-09T00:33:27+00:00

Fuckin hell. Sounds like torture… society really does value looks more than character.

Sensitive-Bet-6504 · 2024-11-09T00:57:31+00:00

it is a real problem. I'm white and I have an asian wife. I've seen recently posts about WMAF and never thought about it before. I asked my wife and she said that she has never been with an asian guy, she only dated white guys. Then I clocked at all her friends (they were all born and raised in our western country with English being their first language), have all married white guys. We have a boy, and he has strong Chinese features. I think he's lovely, but I have started hearing comments from some asian friends that he's "too asian" for a boy. He's innocent, my world, and deserves the best and it disgusts me that people are going to treat him different just for the way he was born. I'm also not sure as to why people have objections to him being asian. Hopefully when he grows older he is going to hold himself high when he walks, works out, and grooms. I can't change society but I can try my best to keep him happy.

BetterPraline2595 · 2024-11-09T01:10:35+00:00

I’ve noticed a vast majority of Asian women go for white men, that’s brutal.

Shdwfalcon · 2024-11-09T01:41:24+00:00

Welcome to the life of a typical Asian man.

My country, in fact, is intentionally famous for being a white man's paradise, where western man go and have the local female population throw themselves at him desperately without him ever needing to do anything, all because he is western or white. The female local population is so pro white and western men to the point where they openly shit on and diss their Asian ethnicity. There is even have a local term for these type of despicable cunts: Sarong Party Girls (SPG).

There are cases whereby the female is married to a local Asian guy, but went out to ride the cock carousel and get liad by random white guys, and yet the anti-male laws in Singapore sided the wife and let her carry on unpunished while punishing the husband. Hell, we even had one case where the wife openly advertised that she wants a white guy to fuck her in her wedding dress many years ago. It was discovered and blown up on one of our local forums. Guess what? The wife got away unpunished. And yes, a white guy took up her offer and she rode him. The forum even found out the guy and posted his face up. But you guessed it, nothing happened to both of them and they got away scott free. Singapore anti-male laws protected that cunt, as usual.

As a guy, I really don't want to diss on other males, because we have it hard. But seriously, our country with the SPG cunts are attracting the wrong kind of western guys in.

Capable-Mushroom99 · 2024-11-09T03:45:34+00:00

Better academic performance, higher income, better health (physical and mental), less likely to have a dysfunctional family. Count your blessings.

retteh · 2024-11-09T02:27:36+00:00

There's a support group for this specific problem on r/AsianMasculinity FYI.

stax496 · 2024-11-09T02:32:03+00:00

I get where you are coming from but there are a lot of things going for asian dudes.

East Asians lack the ABCDII gene which means we have no body odour and our armpits don't smell.

We also have above average IQ and objectively one of the better cultures that creates a level of success where we are considered the model minority and are so successful as a demographic that we are considered honorary whites and don't need DEI hiring.

Having large penis is overrated as those who are super large cannot fit the whole thing in sometimes or are told off by women for bumping into the cervix too often.

vegatx40 · 2024-11-09T00:39:15+00:00

Remember what Trump said when he met Chamath's beautiful wife: "you must be very very wealthy!"

UglyDude1987 · 2024-11-09T02:44:20+00:00

Yup I feel for you guys.

Make money here, and return to asia on long vacations.

I travel to Latin America and I feel far more at home there.

Inskription · 2024-11-09T12:54:10+00:00

I'm a white guy with a somewhat Asian look / build.

It's definitely rough out here for me, so I can imagine.

MannerNo7000 · 2024-11-09T00:33:34+00:00

My advice to your bro is this. Get jacked and make money.

The most attractive Asian guys I’ve seen are very muscular and rich and they do get women.

I know it’s ’self-improvement’ advice but it does work.

Also, dress well, get a good haircut and smell nice.

It will improve your chances if that’s your goal.

LumpyAbbreviations24 · 2024-11-09T05:39:24+00:00

This unfair world Cannot be ruled by a god

medicinal_bulgogi · 2024-11-09T09:23:32+00:00

Uhh I get what you’re saying but why are you stereotyping against yourself? Small dick, chubby face, bad drivers, nerds? What are you talking about? Do you think that applies to all Asians? Because I’m half Asian and it sure doesn’t apply to me.

Fickle_Ad_2825 · 2024-11-09T10:47:16+00:00

For me - being an asian guy is an absolute honour and I don't care about what women think of me. I demolished this trap way way back.

Tiny-General-3700 · 2024-11-09T11:18:18+00:00

If it's any consolation, I'm an average height white guy with a good size dick, and I've still been rejected by multiple women after dating for extended periods of time. It's not so much about looks for them, mostly just money. Bottom line, they want a source of free income so they can live the rest of their life as a parasite and not have to work. The rest is just gravy. If you're a billionaire you can be the ugliest, creepiest mofo imaginable and women will still be lining up at your door, because money is all they really care about. All the modern feminist talk about having a career and being independent goes out the window the moment they find a man willing to provide for them.

TeddyMGTOW · 2024-11-09T12:48:49+00:00

I found Asian women are very tough on their husbands. It's no dream, it's a nightmare for most

Smitty1017 · 2024-11-09T03:27:45+00:00

Fuck all that noise man. I love Asain people, always thought every Asain dude I knew was cool as fuck. And the dick size thing is bullshit. Slight differences in averages mean almost nothing.

MikiSayaka33 · 2024-11-09T02:11:26+00:00

Assassin's Creed: Shadows: (Enters the chat).

++++

I semi- joking aside, I suspect that it has something to do with some irrational racism and some lingering stuff from the past and other parts have to be fear of getting outdone by a better rival.

Medium-Knowledge4230 · 2024-11-09T04:06:56+00:00

I mean, if you want a relationship or just feel desired I think there is still hope for you. A lot of women nowadays are into K-pop, otaku culture, Chinese games... To them, being asian can be very attractive

Rubytux · 2024-11-09T18:04:44+00:00

Gay. Latino. Love Asians cause... small dicks. Pretty sure there are women that do it too.

Swanky_Gear_Snob · 2024-11-09T05:40:53+00:00

Take pride in your people, bro. Asians have homogeneous cultures. They are intelligent and generally have tight-knit families. Asians also have high genetic in/out group preferences. That last one is a trait of a people who will survive. I'm not Asian, but I see a lot of qualities other groups could learn from. Unfortunately, feminists have perverted what is considered important in a man. That is why they are the unhappiest people. I would seriously consider taking a trip back to your acenstral home.

TKD1989 · 2024-11-09T02:42:53+00:00

I'm a short white guy and have it pretty rough, as I'm "expected" to be tall

danath34 · 2024-11-09T07:56:21+00:00

Look on the bright side; at least you're also born with sweet ninja moves! I dunno if it's a fair trade off, but it's gotta count for something

Sad-Constant-6055 · 2024-11-09T08:03:45+00:00

I am a blonde, white female and quite frankly I find Asian men very attractive. Most Asian families have values that I appreciate such as respect of elders, emphasis on education, formal or otherwise, and a strong work ethic. I’ve never understood the whole big penis “bigger is better” bs. The depth of a vagina is about 3-4 inches. As a woman, a huge penis scares me and the idea itself is painful. I feel that whole bigger is better thing is something men have created and not women

Deep_Neighborhood144 · 2024-11-09T08:27:29+00:00

Start looksmaxxing brother no one has it worse than south Asian men I’m talking with experience 😭

naffe1o2o · 2024-11-09T08:50:39+00:00

the only sad thing, is the fact that those things are what matter to you, dick and appearance. and you care so much about what other people think.

Cookieman_2023 · 2024-11-09T10:49:35+00:00

I used to want to make these posts, but I realized that it’s getting me nowhere and in a state of constant complaining. So I stopped. Rather than complain, why don’t you actually do something about it? Like change your hairstyle, set some fitness goals and pursue hobbies that make you interesting? That’s what I’m doing. And yes, I have encountered people who get in my way with their not so supportive words, but they’re just losers who want to keep you at the same level as them.

I also decide not to get into a mindset of assuming no girl I meet is gonna like me because I’m Asian. Because then, not only does it deter you from approaching in the first place, but it influences you to act in a certain way that projects low self esteem and lack of assertiveness which would be the more likely reasons to get rejected over your race

crazyhhluver · 2024-11-09T12:01:57+00:00

So straight up, white guy here, I am not sure what others think but I've been with a few Asian women and our non-taned areas looked pretty similar. I would say you are white, but not western obviously. My friends who are women never had any issues with Asian guys. It will be a stereotype, but at uni, the Asian guys and girls were often top of the class- made them kind of popular. Also, I did 2 degrees and a masters at uni- often the Asian guys (and girls) are pretty driven. You would be surprised how attractive a med student or engineering student can be. Don't be hard on yourself. Same as everyone- be mindful of grooming, clothing and be interesting- you'll go ok.

heretolearnthankyou · 2024-11-09T12:19:00+00:00

I know plenty of women who find the K Popstars very attractive and so I do believe many women like Asian men.

roughback · 2024-11-09T16:32:12+00:00

You got the right bait just fishing in the wrong pond.

Get you a nice younger Asian girl who wants a family and a future, who knows your culture and speaks the same language.

Don't fight what feels right. I've seen a few dudes who realized that they found what they needed in someone of their own culture.

GoodSirBrett · 2024-11-09T17:01:19+00:00

Oh, you definitely CAN say offensive things to women, but it's for sure frowned upon, but if a women is saying rude shit because she thinks she's "hot" and can get away with it, light her ass up

lifelonglearner22698 · 2024-11-09T19:41:30+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from, and as a full-blood Filipino guy, I have experienced a lot of what you mentioned and more. Culturally, Asian kids are supposed to be (and expected to be) way smarter than their peers, way more polite and respectful, way more mature, all while being able to play at least one instrument. 🤦‍♂️

That being said, I don’t think “God got bored and decided to make the most terrible combo of human”, I think it’s just that culturally American society developed to like some things and dislike others. Oddly enough, the most criticized aspects are stereotypes/things we can’t change (being too short, dicks being small, squashed noses). I have to say though, I’ve been to a half dozen different Asian countries as an Asian-American and I get checked out or even hit on regularly. I’m not the best-looking guy in the room, either!

Stay strong, brother. The saying, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure” applies to people as much as things. One woman’s “no-way” is another woman’s “yes-please”.

maverick479 · 2024-11-09T04:27:32+00:00

Bro I can see how you got alot going against you but I do think it is a matter of perspective and lifestyle. I’m from a small town in Arkansas and the coolest dude in our school who was loved by all the dudes and lusted after by all the girls was from Laos. Personality and mentality will take you just as far as looks and resources. But a strong combo of both is the safest bet. But it all starts with working on yourself from your mentality to your physicality. I’m not saying go be a bodybuilder or the greatest pick up artist in the world but Learning Social Skills, understanding presentation and presence like your style and how you carry yourself, working on your perception of the world like how you see situations and people and analyze them, all these are just as important as money or a six pack and a decent chest.

Arguably all of this is supposed to be taught to you by your parents and any other figures you look up to, but somewhere around the late 70’s and early 80’s a lot of these skills stopped being important to developing children and young adults and it’s culminated in this incredibly shallow dating world we have now and increase in anxieties and depressions.

Truly my best advice for anyone is With a logical and rational mind read The Game by Neil Strauss, workout, and start saying yes to any and all opportunities that are presented to you so long as they don’t lead to crime or harm to anyone.

The game is to teach you the basics of social skills and how to recognize them in your day to day life while also teaching you a moral lesson based on the true events he experienced as a pick up artist and how if used for the wrong reasons these skills can be self destructive.

Working out is for your health, your physique, your mental health, and to help build/boost your confidence, hardwork and discipline can make a man feel like a god.

Saying yes is because our internal anxieties that most of us don’t even realize are there will try to get us to play it to safe and then you miss out on potential opportunities for love, lust, or whatever tickles your fancy. Saying yes to invites or saying yes to your own internal thoughts when you ask yourself “should I go ask her out”

Love and life is about trying over and over learning from your previous mistakes until you get it right. Hope is never gone if you never let it go.

BlueThespian · 2024-11-09T05:00:06+00:00

A gurl once wanted to get my attention and I said I didn’t like her eyes, then the racist bomb dawned on me and other men began to throw expletives at me, I told them to shut up and that I couldn’t change my likes to satisfy her, it would be dishonest.

titannish · 2024-11-09T07:01:10+00:00

Agreed. I'm an Indian. I deal with constant racist comments on social media all the time

SpecialReserveSmegma · 2024-11-09T04:14:02+00:00

Family Guy - God creates Asians

Danihelus · 2024-11-09T05:29:50+00:00

If it's of any subject of consolation, Asian men are my most favorite and the most attractive to me. All their features are my favorite.

Also, I'm very sorry you have to experience that.

DoggoOfJudgement · 2024-11-09T06:10:37+00:00

As an Indian dude, I can relate.

True-Lychee · 2024-11-09T06:33:19+00:00

A 2015 systematic review of up to 15,521 men from 20 studies found "no indications of differences in racial variability"

fatogato · 2024-11-09T06:40:59+00:00

Asians dudes are in right now. Much more so than 30 years ago. Lots of girls are into the k-pop/j-pop look. Not sure what you’re on about.

Platypus-Glass · 2024-11-09T07:14:27+00:00

Asian men with the looks equililant needs to make like 247k MORE a year than other men to have the same dating success. This professor talks about dating as an asian guy

https://youtu.be/KsWTFeP1hno?si=wSqhsKUweZwxn6xu

Nasty_PlayzYT · 2024-11-09T07:38:12+00:00

(and yes people make fun of that as a joke, but it sucks ppl just assume that bcs of my skin)

Yikes! People just assume that because you're Asian? Talk about racist. It's like assuming a Black guy automatically has a big one because he's Black. It's just weird.

Did God just get bored and decided to make the most terrible combo of a human for fun?

Come on, now. Asians, in general, are pretty attractive imo. You guys, on average, don't look any worse than men anywhere else. If anything y'all might be slightly more attractive.

DougDante · 2024-11-09T07:41:01+00:00

My condolences. I hope things go better for you, and you find a woman who loves and appreciates you, if that's what you wish.

Lovebomber777 · 2024-11-09T07:44:53+00:00

Guess what it feels like to be an Indian. 😵‍💫

Waterplayersplash · 2024-11-09T07:45:14+00:00

Even though you are a stranger I’ve never met I can sympathize with you. On a serious note God’s creation has no flaws but he will never interfere in the problems we have created here on earth.

Now on to the real issues is women in the past didn’t have the reach that they do now, knowing how picky they are… they will try to settle for the best of the best. Their stubborn nature will not change.

On another note they do not care of how big is it between your legs, all they care about is a man who has money and not busy. That is why I encourage men to build a strong financial position because it will give you the ability to put down the terms and conditions. Keep in mind the idea of divorce is rampant on the modern era, child support is not going to change either.

In conclusion, Through suffering and pain it’s how we are rewarded in the end.

Dartanion5390 · 2024-11-09T08:40:40+00:00

Work out dude. You'll feel better first and then you'll look better

NCC-1701-1 · 2024-11-09T09:50:33+00:00

Make a ton of money then go to bangcock (pun intended), problem solved

000CuriousBunny000 · 2024-11-09T10:03:03+00:00

The only thing good about being Indian is that Indian girls are not like Asians they do like desi boys

TabulaRasa5678 · 2024-11-09T11:23:15+00:00

Asian men typically make more and have the highest IQ's out of any racial demographic. "If you're rich, you don't need a big dick (deck)." ~Blue Collar Tour

Women love money and they have all kinds of shit on their checklists, but if you lack confidence and/or whine all the time, you'll never get laid. Sorry, but that's how it is. The good thing is, that's something that you can change.

freedomsound1 · 2024-11-09T12:39:38+00:00

Wow, hmmm...

Enough-Staff-2976 · 2024-11-09T15:41:54+00:00

All men face this issue with women of like phenotypes especially if they are the bottom 90%. Women select the perceived highest in their ethnicity or they find a lowest member in a perceived higher group.

Illadrex2 · 2024-11-09T17:05:44+00:00

Hey man, stereotypes don't allow people to be human. As a black dude, I have all these stereotypes to either live up to, or try to vehemently prove i don't live up to. It sucks I get it.....that said man, just be the best man you can be, get fit, if you can, get rich, if you can't have a solid career and your troubles with most women will be non existent.

chobolicious88 · 2024-11-09T17:41:31+00:00

Nature is ruthless.

xennoni · 2024-11-10T01:04:55+00:00

All this while Asian women are probably the most wanted race on dating apps...

HardenedClay · 2024-11-10T04:15:33+00:00

it sucks how much women will hype up themselves and other women, but so easily put down men for things we can not control. as a white guy i cant imagine your pain, but im sorry you have to go through that. may you find a wonderful woman who isnt a racist and loves you regardless <3

TakeshiNobunaga · 2024-11-10T05:30:39+00:00

Nah its just the hundreds and thousands of years of isolationism. Check on Asians that have mixed or were raised in non-asian countries. They have a better diet, some have some mixed genetics that fix the gaps.

And society treats racism/xenophobia as a sort of nationalism because they follow guidelines from 2-3 thousand years ago.

It's like a sort of inbreeding for keeping the racial bloodline pure but in mass scale.

Miochi2 · 2024-11-11T02:26:13+00:00

Bro don’t ya think it’s your whiny post history? It has nothing to do with you being Asian. I am a white woman and my husband is an Asian (Korean)man. Forget what people find unattractive , there will always and I mean always be people that won’t like Thea you look . Work on the things you can change like the whiny attitude and complaining about women all day

kdud010 · 2024-11-12T15:04:01+00:00

Bro dont put 100% effort into chasing women considering the odds in dating arent in our favor. Truth is western society is racist when it comes to Asian men, being brushed aside as irrelevant in many categories. Given how Asian men are perceived in western society, youd have to put in more effort than any white and black man in your appearance, career, etc for nonAsian women. Its simply not worth it and rather emasculating for Asian men i.e. Asian men put in more work while the avg white/black guy can get laid with little effort from the same woman. Personally, Im not putting in more work for anybody.

And Those that talk about how kpop are "helping asian men" are ignorant. Kpop is literally a small niche. I doubt the avg woman is attracted to white men because of country music or black men because of hip hop. They dont understand that Asian men want to be viewed as human beings i.e. we want to see the avg random women striking random conversations with Asian men, being overly receptive with Asian men, etc. not associate with him solely cause of her interest in kpop. The avg white/black man garners interests, not the avg asian man.

Extension-Line-9380 · 2024-11-22T18:45:29+00:00

I’m surprised that this didn’t immediately get removed and swept underneath the rug

yellowrosecandy · 2025-01-17T13:59:27+00:00

Idk if I’m allowed to comment in this community as a woman, but I just wanted to say I’m a biracial (black/white) girl and have always found Asian men incredibly attractive. I’ve been hoping for a lot of the assumptions and stereotypes to go away for the sake of Asian men and so women can expand their interests. This might sound insane but I think RedNote (xiaohongshu) is helping with that. So many women are on there drooling over Asian men and I think it’s a good start! Hopefully I finally meet my Asian king one day lol

Ok_Education_4907 · 2025-02-08T06:18:44+00:00

I'm sorry you have to encounter such negativity from society's tasteless, and outdated views. Human interaction is lost on so many. Instead of meeting new people and opening one's mind up to different cultures, some people are educated through stereotypes. Unfortunately, it isn't something that can be changed overnight, but I respect you and other men for opening up about this. You are attractive and I'm sorry that people have made you feel the opposite of that. Asian men are the most attractive to me. As a black woman I get judged when I talk about how attractive Asian men are. I've always had people make comments because I honestly find every race of men beautiful.

Would I date an Asian man? ABSOLUTELY! Now, I don't want to make this conversation go another way, because this is about you and other Asian men who feel shamed and pretty much unappreciated. But I wish you can see just how freaking beautiful you are. To the Asian men who feel unseen, I'm sorry. I can pour on the compliments all day because I honestly feel this way about Asian men. You guys are extremely attractive. Skinny, fat, nerdy, geeky, average, straight hair, curly hair, chubby face, breaded face, etc...all of these are beautiful traits. And for those with "small" you know what's (be proud of what you have) Whatever size you are, you are beautiful. I want you guys to know your worth.

CompetitionExternal5 · 2025-03-05T15:00:13+00:00

Where I'm from, Asians are cool. And some get to date / marry cute girls. Once you grow up and visit more places you will find that out. It's probably where your community is right now. Just strick to your friends and try working on yourself. Once you grow up you will see there are plenty of opportunities for you elsewhere.

chenfengyoyu · 2025-10-11T06:36:26+00:00

sorry,China's falut , apologize for you.

mrindividualistic1 · 2024-11-09T00:38:42+00:00

my friend you all need to do is don't give a shit about others think and fuck the stereotypes there is racism everywhere, im half iraqi half greek, people assume im a terrorist or got to do with isis or al queda i just simply be a giga chad and do not give a shit about them and what they say, i usually be a asshole towards them and if they get hurt by feelings I simply don't give a shit

DifficultPapaya3038 · 2024-11-09T03:38:30+00:00

At the end of the day a large portion of why some women view Asian men with so much contempt isn’t because of god, it’s the way Asian men are portrayed in western society. I can confidently say that for the last maybe 30 ish years movies, tv and other forms of media (as well as porn) basically have been emasculating asian men far before they started emasculated white men imo.

When you pump out that many stereotypes for so long it crafts peoples sexual and social desires for their pick of men for example: I remember my dad telling me about a popular movie that aired sometime in the 80s that had a super masculine dark skinned black dude as the lead character( can’t remember the name) and he said his dating options exploded for the next year and interacial dating with BMs basically became a social craze.

I’ve also had plenty of Asian men as friends and they have the same sentiment that you do. They basically feel like women treat them like they need to breakthrough with impossible conditions to prove their even male and not some effeminate cuck because of the stereotypes our media has been making for so long.

I feel you man and it’s just straight up cruel and it robs you of feeling normal.

DO-Kagome · 2024-11-09T05:08:33+00:00

Personally, I like Asian guys... a lot. But then again, I am bi so.. 😬 (not hitting on you, just admiration)

Nasty_PlayzYT · 2024-11-09T07:37:29+00:00

(and yes people make fun of that as a joke, but it sucks ppl just assume that bcs of my skin)

Yikes! People just assume that because you're Asian? Talk about racist. It's like assuming a Black guy automatically has a big one because he's Black. It's just weird.

Did God just get bored and decided to make the most terrible combo of a human for fun?

Come on, now. Asians, in general, are pretty attractive imo. You guys, on average, don't look any worse than men anywhere else. If anything y'all might be slightly more attractive.

Forsaken_Hat_7010 · 2024-11-09T09:11:25+00:00

straight hair, small eyes

Is this a bad thing?

anonybro101 · 2024-11-14T20:48:56+00:00

Could be worse. You could’ve been Indian. Those guys are truly screwed. Society hates them for no reason. And their Hindu culture doesn’t help either.

Rax1995 · 2025-12-02T06:38:56+00:00

Rax1995 · 2025-12-02T06:39:21+00:00

I'm 30 years old. I've been in the U.S. for about three years. I've only had one date with an Asian woman. I had plenty of mutual likes on Hinge, but not a single one ever turned into an actual meeting — even when we exchanged numbers. I'm mixed Asian myself, but I consider myself unattractive because I went through a serious facial trauma that almost cost me my nose. I even had plastic surgery to repair the damage. I also have a scar that becomes especially noticeable when I sweat or eat spicy food.

Honestly, before the injury I didn’t look “typically Asian,” and I was actually pretty good-looking. I never had problems with women of any race. In my opinion, your race doesn’t matter as much if you’re physically attractive. For example, back in Kazakhstan before my injury, people never thought I was Kazakh — they assumed I was Russian or something else, simply because I had a tall, strong nose with a hump, similar to men from the Caucasus region or Turkish men.

I’ve experienced nationalism because of this too. Nationalism and racism always exist in countries where one ethnicity or race dominates over others. There aren’t many Asians in the U.S., and naturally that means there are few Asian politicians, cultural figures, actors, artists — in general, not many prominent public figures. On top of that, America's main geopolitical rival is also an Asian country — China. So anti-Asian sentiment is partly fueled by propaganda as well.

It’s no secret that the U.S. has had major racist problems in the past, and they don’t just disappear after old laws are abolished — segregation, the Chinese Exclusion Act, bans on interracial marriage between whites and Asians, Blacks, etc. But since America is the world’s number-one superpower, maybe things will improve in the future — though I can't say for sure.

As for Asian racism and bullying, as I wrote above, the main factor is our small population size. If the Asian population grows and becomes the second or even third largest demographic group in the States, the situation would change drastically — simply because there would be more Asians everywhere: on the streets, on TV, among actors, politicians, military leaders, and so on.

Will this happen? Nobody knows. We can only hope.

And of course, societies generally accept people who look more like the majority — that’s another factor behind everything happening.

For me personally, it’s hard right now. First, I’m physically unattractive because of my injury — and on top of that, I’m Asian in America. A funny combination.

I live in Los Angeles. If there are any women who would like to meet me, I’d be very happy.

Dio_hatessalad-333 · 2024-11-09T02:28:11+00:00

Dude, it's alright, not all women are horrible, a Women out there is waiting for you, she loves you. It'll be hard to find her of course, but she's out there, and she'll love you no matter what. Trust me dude. It's fine.

fire-and-wisdom · 2024-11-09T02:41:08+00:00

It makes me very sad to read this.
Society really needs to be better.

mr_j_12 · 2024-11-09T07:51:08+00:00

"Bad drivers". Not anymore, indians have taken over that stigma.

life_less_soul · 2024-11-10T07:42:23+00:00

Lol, it's not women who damaged it.

Men boasting about their height, pp, etc had given the women to think that way. If collectively all men wouldn't discriminate against each other, it would have been good. Not only that, racism in the corporate against Asians is real, a white manager would try to nag promoting an Asian male. I would urge the white people to understand this and work on in future.

Excellent_You5494 · 2024-11-09T00:45:26+00:00

Every man I've fucked said, "Give me that little dick."

It's about 50/50 with women, and the 50% who weren't pleased just weren't into it, felt like humping air frankly.

It really is what you do with it, not how big it is. Unless you have a micropenis.

I'm 5/7, large body.

Have straight hair.

Am a nerd.

You are fine, it's the confidence.

Apprehensive-Cow2617 · 2024-11-09T09:39:41+00:00

Interestingly enough, the most anti-asian racism I've seem stems from the left. Usually the feminists and "BLM" supporters.

They're very peace loving, accepting and tolerant, until it comes to asian men for some reason.

Personally, I believe that east asians and the whites should be at the top of the racial hieracrchy considering their achievements and contribution to western society, as well as their intelligence. But the matriarchal left thinks in reverse when it comes to anything relating to progress or common sense.

Cheap_Drawer8615 · 2024-11-09T08:16:52+00:00

Yeah? And you're also smart.

I'm just saying this man to man, women love smarties.

OkCarpet4787 · 2024-11-09T02:24:35+00:00

Lmao all the girls like white and Asian guys dude you not applying yourself

Title	Being an Asian guy sucks
Author	Shackles_YT
Upvotes	556
Comments	212
Date	November 9, 2024 12:29 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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