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If 90% of feminists fought for men's rights then men's rights advocates/activists wouldn't even be a thing.
And feminists are mostly talk when it comes to men's issues like conscription.
It was the National Coalition for Men (NCFM) that brought a case to end sex selective military conscription, not feminist groups like the National Organization for Women (NOW).
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They say they care but their actions don't show it. Feminists and feminist organizations chalk up most of the problems men face to toxic masculinity and attitudes of men without recognizing that a lot of those attitudes stem from expectations put on men by women and society and not just men themselves.
They say men should open up but mock men that discuss this as "whining", "fragile" and "manbabies" for complaining about the kind of microaggressions and unfair social and legal expectations men face and that are imposed on them
https://www.splcenter.org/hatewatch/2012/08/03/men%E2%80%99s-rights-activists-disdain-men%E2%80%99s-sacrifice-colorado-shooting
Aside from debate about the pay gap and how women aren't oppressed I have not seen men's rights activists that seem to want to discredit women's issues. A place I have seen that argument of men's rights activists wanting to discredit women's issues being made is in this articlehttps://psmag.com/ideas/how-mens-rights-groups-use-the-rhetoric-of-equality-to-punish-women
which I do not believe is accurate and really portrays the zero sum game and one-sided demands that encompasses a lot of feminists and feminism as a whole these days.
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They would see it that way regardless of how careful you are not to seem "misogynistic" (a catch-all phrase used to silence any discussion about the issues low status men face) and insist men's rights are a group for unsuccessful, loser virgin males.
Before the term "incel" became popularized as an insult many people in men's rights groups were attacked as loser virgins.
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If by hating women you mean complaining about them then yeah but that sort of attitude doesn't come out of nowhere. It comes out of having negative experiences with women often in family court and divorce.
I see it all the time. Along with the term "neckbeard"
https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/kdys4v/students_hate_toxic_masculinity_but_cant_define/gfzxc1r/?context=3
https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/kdqfts/men_in_courts_and_rape_cases_are_guilty_until/gg0k4g3/?context=3
Btw like it or not if you are an MRA or identify with causes that men's rights activists support you are considered an incel by more than just a few people.
https://np.reddit.com/r/IncelTear/comments/jbe9xq/mras\_exposing\_themselves\_online\_again\_yall\_aint/
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That's superficial hatred by people that want to fit in and say how feminists go to far because it's trendy to do that and to fit in.
They claim they aren't feminists but they uphold all the principles of feminism and come down way harder on misogyny than misandry. They are very accepting of the notion of men sacrificing their lives for women and the man having to have the burden of performance. They don't necessarily believe women should have to sign up for selective service in order to vote. Their gynocentric bias is intact.
Their "hatred" of feminism is a farce.
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They say they don't but words and actions are two different things. People who say feminism is bad still largely very much do favor advancing women's rights over men's rights or think that men's rights is also stupid and pointless.
Definitely but the term has been watered down to guys that openly pander to women by donating to them on streams or buying their onlyfans which is another thing altogether.
Many of those people trying to fit in by hating on men's day are just following the crowd and are tools but even they wouldn't think of themselves as simps but as exercising common courtesy and common sense.
And it's unfortunate that twitter is a really big platform with a lot of users that a lot of people make use of to grow their social network. Because really otherwise there's really no point on being twitter unless you are a producer or writer or some sort of artist. Definitely not worthwhile arguing with people on twitter either in this era of cancel culture.
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They are jaded from their life experiences. And imo depending on how you define cheating (emotional affairs, straying) they aren't necessarily wrong about many relationships ending with a woman cheating or other men not respecting the boundaries of other men's relationships and marriage not being worth it.
ie "She has a bf/husband? So what? Soccer has a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score!"
is the attitude of a lot of guys these days. And women cheating is not as frowned on as before.
Yeah it shatters the illusion of true love and romance but this is the real world. Things get messy. They aren't ideal. Life long marriage is for many a pipe dream these days and clinging to that fantasy if you aren't a good looking guy is setting yourself up for heartbreak as a lot of guys have found. You can disagree with this and find it "hateful" but they aren't just imagining this. They see it happening around them.
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I don't necessarily disagree.
I don't buy these statistics however. Many people can lie on surveys. Plus women have an easier time on average than men in getting sex so it really doesn't make sense that less married women cheat than married men. And even still I don't think the percentage of married men that are reported to cheat is high enough to be realistic. 24% seems like a low number.
In what way do you think it's more objective than what I might think?
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What does this sub do that is comparable to what feminists do?
And where is your evidence that those that do that are mostly incels?
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There's nothing wrong with fighting for men when feminists are mostly fighting for women and the rest of society doesn't really see men's issues as a concern.
You can't expect people in a losing position not to advocate for their self interests as a group and that's why a lot of people here are fighting more for the rights of themselves and other males rather than people as a whole.
All groups do this though. To expect a group to be better than that and the bigger man really isn't realistic and I believe subjects that group to unfair demands and expectations. No group of people that feels its members are mistreated or oppressed can ever be expected to take it completely civilly and be the bigger person. And really I don't think people saying that they have more in common with such men than any woman is implicating those men as rapists. Rather, I think it's them saying that they share commonalities with such men because such situations could occur to them and the very real outlook of men being presumed guilty before innocent in any situation involving women is very much applicable to them too.
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Patriarchy is a misnomer and an application of the apex fallacy.
https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/ibe3gp/what_is_the_apex_fallacy/
It applies to a system that supposedly benefits all men but that simulataneously men are harmed by but implies that men are the ones in power.
It neglects men that have been in subordinate positions that are not in places of power or high status and lumps them into some boogeyman that needs to be abolished.
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Today Lister was proven innocent of all charges. Too bad his reputation is gone
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he has 20 allegations... at least 1 is true LMAOOOO
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Bringing into account the amount of rapes that are both reported and not reported, only 0.05% of rapes are ever falsely reported. That 40% statistic does not just include people proven to be lying, but also cases of people recanting due to fear of retaliation and cases that simply couldn’t be proven beyond a shadow of a doubt. I understand you may be afraid of being falsely accused, but I’m afraid of being RAPED again. You think a false accusation can ruin your life? Imagine being so horribly violated and then only getting justice 6% of the time that you report.
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There was 20+ woman, that is enough proof!
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