I'll just keep it quick. My girlfriend and I were talking about feminism and men's rights, and she just kept throwing out the same rhetoric by citing the "patriarchy" and how it's the reason how everything is the way it is, and I need some help trying to further the discussion. She partially acts as if it is some sort of all inclusive club and I need help to diffuse this. Also she seems to always cite the wage gap, and I always see that it is "debunked" on here, but no one has ever explained that facet to me( as if I were five).