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Redditor admits to repeatedly assaulting her SO; tries to downplay her actions

gellis12

September 15, 2014

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Title	Redditor admits to repeatedly assaulting her SO; tries to downplay her actions
Author	gellis12
Upvotes	18
Comments	48
Date	September 15, 2014 8:02 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/mensrights/comments/2gho8b/redditor-admits-to-repeatedly-assaulting-her-so-/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/redditor-admits-to-repeatedly-assaulting-her-so.1621092 https://theredarchive.com/post/1621092

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Here I flipped the genders.

We've been together for a year, and it's gotten to the point where, if we ever begin to argue, she'll want to hold my wrists down to stop me from hitting her. If she doesn't, she flinches whenever I make sudden gestures, expecting another punch. It feels horrible. I don't want my SO to be afraid of me. Oddly enough, sometimes her reactions will make me even angrier. I don't come from an abusive household, so it's not that. But my dad was always quick to anger and used to hit me growing up, and he still does (rarely) if he loses his temper. It was never to the point of bruises or anything, but enough that I think I picked up the tendency to lash out in frustration. It's not every time we argue, thank God. It's usually when I'll try to make a point, and she either doesn't get it or refuses to see my side, and I JUST WANT HER TO UNDERSTAND AND WHY ISN'T SHE UNDERSTANDING AND FUCK I'M GETTING SO MAD JUST. SEE. MY. POINT. OF. FUCKING. VIEW. DKJSAFKJSHIFAWEAFSD PUNCH I love her. I don't want to be an abusive boyfriend. I've never hit her on the face, or thrown anything at her. Just punches onto her shoulder or lap. ONE TIME though, we were arguing, and she began walking ahead of me and said something that REALLY pissed me off (I don't remember what). I was about to hit her IN THE BACK. My arms were raised and everything but I stepped away and stopped myself. That's beyond cowardly! Who attacks someone with their back turned!? I almost did, and I don't want that to happen again. Please help me.

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I took personal offense because I hold a degree in a social science, and my capstone paper was creating an extremely involved experiment with human subjects. I had to jump through MONTHS of hoops to satisfy the requirements of my university before I could even start the selection process. You think that posting a fake story on Reddit constitutes a real experiment? You think that this experiment yields any meaningful data? You think you should hold yourself in the same esteem as people who are performing real experiments with human subjects? GTFO and GFYS.

Also, it's not up to me to suggest how you could go about doing this differently. When an academic researcher does a shitty job of putting together an experiment, his colleagues only offer advice if they a) see merit in the experiment and b) feel that a few minor tweaks are all that would be needed to make the experiment viable and useful. I see neither of these things. If neither of those things are present, the experiment is simply torn down for its shitty methods, analysis, and/or conclusion and left for dead.

Edited to reflect you wrote one fake story, not two.

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