Relationships

Session-Special · 2023-09-18T05:55:22+00:00

the land on feminism is salted and non fertile.

She will come to you with feelings, and generated facts to make you feel bad etc., But when you look at the whole picture - you will learn its not that way. She will try to open the relationship because of sexual freedom and how that it is against the patriarchy. Then on and on it will go - all the while you become more disillusioned and more unhappy.

In the end you will be the problem, It is then you are labeled at the patriarchy and gaslight into limbo. There are tons of videos about this subject of "feminism ruining relationships".

The historical issues they bring forward are from the 15th, and 16th century. Most were society norms of that time period, what they don't mention is that men were working farms at that time - which as of current data is the 6th most dangerous job in the world now. They fail to mention the whole picture and only focus on the limited scope to make it appear most negative. Really trash way to look at things.

even if you try to argue the point logically - most will ignore this and stay on the path of patriarchy ( loose formed demon to scare the person into not listening to truth or viewing the whole picture ).

I would make an exit strategy, collect any and all data that she will try to trash you with in public - because they always do. Then leave - do not argue(creates drama that they love), Talk to her family one last time and let them know the basics. That if they have questions you are open to meeting them in a public area. etc., Then wait - the rest of this will be on the new feminist and how she reacts.

heeroena · 2023-09-18T06:24:03+00:00

yep time to pack up and upgrade

another-cosplaytriot · 2023-09-18T08:47:41+00:00

She's saying this bullshit because she wants to break up with you. Get out fast, she's just trying to piss you off with nonsense because she doesn't have the courage to just end it like an adult.... just like the rest of them.

Her goal is to get you angry, maybe taunt you into saying something that she can interpret as misogyny so she can feel good about breaking up. It's a chickenshit move, Don't give her the satisfaction, force her to deal with this like an adult,

Dry-Pianist1853 · 2023-09-18T06:50:28+00:00

a 'break' is a nail in the coffin anyways

Ice_Dapper · 2023-09-18T08:57:17+00:00

None of these feminists are worth dating or being in relationships with. She will resent you for things which have been debunked time and time again. As a man your significant other is supposed to bring peace and harmony in your life. These feminists will make your life a living hell. Dump her and let her spend the rest of her life with a beta male simp who will pedestalize her. Meanwhile get your money, physique up and make yourself the best version you can be and you'll find someone 100x better. She'll see the glow up and try to come back. It never fails.

FYI, taking a "break" is just girl talk for wanting to get dug out by chad and tyrone.

ButWhatOfGlen · 2023-09-18T06:40:03+00:00

Leave, soon.

Lionheart27778 · 2023-09-18T08:53:04+00:00

It's likely that her asking for a break is a mind game/power play to attempt to manipulate you to get on board with her new opinions.

She is probably fully expecting you to apologize, come crawling back and beg her forgiveness while wearing a " the future is female" shirt.

Do yourself a favour and break up with her, as the mind games/power plays/manipulations/gaslighting/general drama will probably only get worse from here on out.

TheWinterNights · 2023-09-18T10:13:03+00:00

Your relationship is over.

These aren't conversations.

She accumulated a critical mass of irrational material and emotioned herself into an antagonistic position. If she cared about you or your opinion you would have had actual conversations - usually early on. Something like "hey I read an article about.", "a friend gave me this book that I am reading".

Those conversations would have still been rough around the edges, but if she came from an honest position and was willing to talk to you and listen to your points, while you do the same for her - that would have been mutual respect. This is how growing together works, and someone who considers you a partner does not shut you out of the process and throws end results your way to deal with. You are part of it, because you matter to them. You don't have that here. She does not respect you or your opinion.

She is now at a point where she is emotionally irrational and only looks for validation of her new found value system in which women are victims, men are perpetrator, the progressive stack, and so on. She will be only receptive to information that confirms that, antagonistic to anything that is not confirming that, adapting a mindset of "everyone who is not with this is against this and by extension against me". You are no longer the most important thing to her, you are now "one of them".

You can't logic her out of this. There is no logic-ing someone out of a position they did not arrive by logic.

Don't be angry at her over it.

The women you fell in love with is gone, but she was there when you did. Wish this new person the best of luck on her journey, cherish the memory you have had for as long as it lasted, but choose happiness for both of you - and the road she went down without asking you if you want to come along or caring for it, it does not have happiness for either of you if you stay.

It happens. This isn't any difference then if say you would have mentally arrived at a place in your life where you really wanted children, a small house and a calm life, but she said she really does not and loves still traveling like crazy and going dancing, ... sometimes these things don't play out.

No-Cable7745 · 2023-09-18T08:48:18+00:00

It is outstanding to me how you can go 7 years with someone and never know what kind of side they swing. Weird if you ask me.

MikhailovCB · 2023-09-18T09:28:37+00:00

Yeah its over somebody is brainwashing her

Euphoric-Row-5346 · 2023-09-18T09:19:04+00:00

It's up to you. If I were you, I would not be with that kind of female because I do not tolerate such things. If it was my boss, I'd have no choice but to ignore her, but it's not the case. Plus, females have never been oppressed. Men made all civilizations and women benefitted from them.

Both-Ad-9225 · 2023-09-18T07:13:03+00:00

Take the "L" , take the break and when she comes back, if she does , stay on break.

KrazyJazz · 2023-09-18T07:48:25+00:00

she said we should take a break.

People change. Especially if you were dating since your teenagers years. That's the way it is. For some reasons, it looks like your soon-to-be-ex girlfriend grew disgruntled with her life, with you.

This feminist cancer will become more and more pervasive with time and you'll be, you already are as a matter of fact, her first target. Leave, man. For your very own sake. Quietly. With dignity. Because she's gone already. And no one should stay where his presence is not desired.

Clear_Daikon4794 · 2023-09-18T10:33:07+00:00

She's cheating. Leave.

Mcboyo238 · 2023-09-18T10:34:30+00:00

Oh no...

shit-zen-giggles · 2023-09-18T10:55:19+00:00

Whether you should break up with her or not, only you can tell.

If you do, she will quite likely come crawling back after a while, the question is what you do then.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2023-09-18T11:02:17+00:00

If your girl tries to put you in a rile of men bad. Time to walk out. If thats in the begin stage. Only down hill from there the longer she keeps in the indoctrination camps. And you cant say what she should or should not do.

But you can definitely choose if you wanna stay with the choices and changes she made.

So if she choosing her. You should choose you too. Dont stay where your not respected

CalmGuitar · 2023-09-18T11:17:50+00:00

Be proud of your patriarchial, traditional, conservative religious beliefs. If she likes it, good. Else next. This is what I've learnt the hard way. No feminists and liberals ever.

griii2 · 2023-09-18T11:42:28+00:00

Women were historically oppressed and so were men. Liberalism is the philosophy of "live and let live", only in the US it is conflated with socialism. You are overreacting.

Title	Relationships
Author	Ok-Quarter6172
Upvotes	28
Comments	27
Date	September 18, 2023 5:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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