So if you scroll this sub, you can clearly see that a lot of posts are about how much problems we men face in our day to day life and how much they're being intentionally ignored. But I've rarely seen a post regarding how we can solve not all, at least few of the most pressing problems.

I was in some other thread and a user put up a list of problems or discriminations men have gone through.

- VAWA ( Violence Against Women Act )

- Laws and legal definitions of rape both federally and in many states

- Most states don't have default shared custody still

- Title IX implementations

- the Duluth model still governs treatment of domestic violence issues in most areas of the country, despite being debunked by its own developer

- Affirmative action laws disproportionately affect men both in hiring and in education, despite the latter being dominated by women 3-to-2 or nearly so

- Safe harbor laws disproportionately affect potential fathers who have no rights in a mother giving up children for adoption anonymously

- Abortion rights negatively affect men who may wish to be fathers, or not wish to be fathers; or have any say at all in their future responsibilities - that choice is not shared, it is completely given to the mother, despite it being the most impactful thing in the man's life as well

- Selective service

- Retirement age and laws related to it, considering the much shorter lifespan for men

It doesn't matter if we can solve all these problems or not, but at least giving a try is worth it. We can start simply,

1). By electing right leaders and representatives (Not religious nutjobs or far left progressives, but ones who can see the society for what it is)

2). Making support groups among ourselves (This sub is of course has been a good suport group nevertheless). We should be able to support each other, understand each other and be kind to each other. Modern day therapy is mostly biased for women, and men should be more open among ourselves. We shouldn't ignore others' problems by saying "men are tough", we should provide each others advices as necessary.

3). Writing letters, making petitions and sharing these problems even among your female friends to at least acknowledge these problems.

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We may not be able to solve all these problems in our life time, but not only can we try, but we can guide our future generations as well.

So other than above steps, what more solutions can you think of ?