They still don't get it.

ERiC_693 · 2023-03-05T05:09:20+00:00

Its obvioys what the problem is. Women are looking for 1950s men to pay for all their shit and call it equality. Then in divorce theres no feminists and women want the kids, house, swimming pool etc.. men are essentially reset to poverty mode while she lives in the whole house. Whats the point?

Also nowadays its difficult to even converse with a white female without being called a mansplainer, privileged etc..and they look at you like you're the devil if you talk about men's issues. Fuck that.

Disclonius · 2023-03-04T23:57:17+00:00

When I was younger I have always seen marriage as putting even more barriers to your own freedom but I considered myself ignorant and didn’t think much about it. Times sure have changed and nowadays it feel like getting married is basically a coin flip with disastrous outcomes for us if we happen to lose. Oh and of course the coin flip is slightly rigged, more like 64/36?

B1G_Fan · 2023-03-04T23:49:32+00:00

"Dates feel like job interviews"

And this feeling would be a lot more tolerable if the interviewer had every intention of making the interview and the job as enjoyable as possible

Once upon a time, a father of a daughter would supervise the courtship process to protect his daughter. In exchange, said father would try to marry his daughter off at an age where men would be willing to go through the gauntlet of both the father's expectations as well as the daughter's expectations.

But, now, late 20 something women are expecting a man to jump through hoops when it's a lot more likely that she didn't ask Chad to jump through hoops before she gave her body to him...

Why try to buy the cow when we know damn well that the process of renting the cow was a lot less onerous?

Organic-Brotha · 2023-03-05T00:11:41+00:00

They’re taught to believe that they are the prize and “their presence” is all they need to bring to the table while their list of requirements grow with each generation.

The_Bullionaire · 2023-03-04T22:27:47+00:00

Marriage no longer benefits men and we are waking up. Women do not cook, do not clean, taking care of their man is seen as oppression, they are more demanding than ever, they get half of assets if they divorce, kids too no questions asked, "child support" payments, then get to play victims of some elusive patriarchy. I asked women "what is the benefit for a guy getting married?" Most common answer ? "Me." Narcissism on another level.

Daman_1985 · 2023-03-04T23:51:34+00:00

Well, I find funny the comparison with a "job interview"

Because it's 100% accurate. It's like a "commercial transaction" and since that it's the idea in the modern times... It just happen what always happens with a failure or a bad transaction: if it's not a good business, it's not worth of time and money.

They make this bed, now it's time to "enjoy" the results. No one seriously can think that men are gonna stand for this. And it's gonna get more and more traction when time passes.

Yahentamitsi · 2023-03-05T01:01:27+00:00

Dude, I feel you. It's like they're not even trying to understand where we're coming from. But hey, we can't give up on spreading awareness, right? The thing is, we live in a society that's been conditioned to think that men can't be victims, that we're always the perpetrators. But that's just not true. We have just as much right to speak up about our experiences and struggles as anyone else. It's frustrating when people try to shut us down or dismiss us, but we have to keep pushing. Keep sharing your story, keep supporting other men who are going through the same thing. Together, we can make a difference. And to anyone reading this who still doesn't get it: it's not about putting men above women or denying that women face their own unique challenges. It's about recognizing that men face issues too, and that we deserve to have our voices heard and our struggles addressed. It's about equality, plain and simple. So let's keep fighting the good fight, my dudes. We got this.

suj1290 · 2023-03-05T01:18:25+00:00

I think one of the reasons could be men don't have motivation to date anymore. You are told to bring literally everything possible on the table and for what? Women are promiscuous as ever,have hoe phases,not agreeable at all,cheating in relationships,want to be spoiled without spoiling in return,don't want to do any emotional labor, they want dads not boyfriends .Apart from subpar sex there isn't anything that most women can give today and that need is also taken by porn

The_Bullionaire · 2023-03-05T21:11:36+00:00

I love how they want to act like porn is the problem and not modern women's mentality and society

TheRealFatShadey · 2023-03-04T22:27:02+00:00

I do nothing but play video games and collect unemployment but womens standards have become so high that they are refusing average men like me.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2023-03-07T02:05:12+00:00

When dating a gal and she started asking serious questions too soon I’d just deflect them and give her non-answers. For example, I think it was about my fifth date with my wife and she asked how old I was out of the blue. I answered playfully with, “oh be careful with that. You know what I’d ask you in return.” [her age]

goonpalace · 2023-03-12T21:03:00+00:00

idk about anyone else but id love to cook and clean it comes in the package

Title	They still don't get it.
Author	The_Bullionaire
Upvotes	69
Comments	32
Date	March 4, 2023 10:24 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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