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This dad needed to know that he had a supportive community before he killed

thisdadsamamabear · 2018-08-01T03:43:51+00:00

We've got to stick together! Others who may be suffering from the absence of their children. What do you do to pass the time and to keep yourself sane...

thisdadsamamabear

August 1, 2018

11 upvotes

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Title	This dad needed to know that he had a supportive community before he killed
Author	thisdadsamamabear
Upvotes	11
Comments	10
Date	August 1, 2018 3:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/93lhoe/this_dad_needed_to_know_that_he_had_a_supportive/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/this-dad-needed-to-know-that-he-had-a-supportive.1185976 https://theredarchive.com/post/1185976

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[–]ThatNinaGAL 8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

There is nothing that you could have done for this man. Don't carry that guilt. The vast, vast majority of noncustodial parents absolutely can benefit from a supportive community, but somebody this intrinsically defective isn't going to be dissuaded by social outreach. He murdered his ex, his child, and his current wife before cutting his own throat and shooting himself. They found two Glocks and SEVEN MAGAZINES, plus additional rounds. Thank Christ that he decided that murdering his family was sufficient and didn't use the rest of that ammo on his neighbors or random passers-by.

This woman fled when she was pregnant, initiated legal proceedings for divorce and custody, and followed the court's orders with regard to visitation. If she had stayed in the Netherlands, she would be alive and her child would be alive, and the second wife would probably be alive as well. In rare cases such as this, fleeing is the right choice and coming back is deadly. But if he had no criminal or psych record, she would have had a very hard time persuading a judge not to insist on visitation. It's just a tragic case all around.

[–]thisdadsamamabear[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]ThatNinaGAL 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]thisdadsamamabear[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheMythof_Feminism -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]ThatNinaGAL 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheMythof_Feminism 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]thisdadsamamabear[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheMythof_Feminism 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

As men we can make a stronger statement by becoming successful Overcomers of adversity

Sure. I agree.

But some men will not be able to overcome the demented obstacles and traps that are placed before them, leading to unspeakable torment, which may lead to this type of behavior. The system is broken and must be fixed asap.

When this guys heart was put to the fire it melted and his default reaction was kill. We need new default options because the system is and likely will always be unfair

The fuck are you talking about? the guy was railroaded by an unjust system and when he saw no other alternative, he chose the violent path.

You can only push so much and so hard before some men snap.... again I don't approve of his actions whatsoever, but I understand where he was coming from. It seems that you do not.

[–]thisdadsamamabear[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link