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This doesn't seem "abnormal" or confession worthy to me, unfortunately.

lazlounderhill

September 10, 2013

17 upvotes

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http://np.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/1m44qz/im_a_woman_and_i_dont_feel_sympathyempathy_for/

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Title	This doesn't seem "abnormal" or confession worthy to me, unfortunately.
Author	lazlounderhill
Upvotes	17
Comments	12
Date	September 10, 2013 5:20 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1m46v2/this_doesnt_seem_abnormal_or_confession_worthy_to/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/this-doesnt-seem-abnormal-or-confession-worthy-to.1164228 https://theredarchive.com/post/1164228

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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]ClickclickClever 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have to disagree but it doesn't really have to with any "gender war" or anything. The people I've seen to met in life really just seem to be out for themselves, some might come off as compassionate and empathetic but at one time or another they've really screwed people over. This goes for men as well as women, it really just seems like a human trait. Though women have a lot more power to screw a man's life over, most of the men I know have been arrested for DV at sometime or another(I'd say maybe 10% unfortunately were guilty) some had to spend time in jail for simply wanting to leave there girlfriend, had one guy spend 6 months in jail and couldn't beat a charge because he didn't want to take care of his girlfriends kids while she went out and got high, a few of them have had rape accusations through at them, just to have them quickly recanted like nothing happened, two had to go to trial and luckily they could afford lawyers and while they didn't get off scott free, they at least aren't spending 30 years in prison. These are women who laugh about doing these things, openly admit it, are happy about it and while some of them are the sweetest people and some are my good friends, people have the ability to severely fuck each other over. Men on the other hand, at best can what? Beat someone I suppose, good thing most men have it so ingrained into their head that if they lay a hand on a woman than they're lower than pond scum, too bad a few of them are getting beat whenever their girlfriend/wife gets angry or drunk and can't defend themselves. Too bad for primary aggressor laws that let cops arrest victims simply because they're bigger than than their SO. Maybe I just know the worst people in the world, but like I said, they really aren't that bad, if you met them on the street, you'd assume they're good people, and sometimes they are. They aren't completely bad, they don't do this stuff everyday, but it's happened enough and without and consequences that it's just what they do if they feel they need too.

So when you say that the majority of women in the real world are perfect capable of having empathy for men, I agree but I don't think the very large group of women that use their power to completely fuck men over because they can, well I really don't think we should ignore them. We certainly don't ignore the pieces of shit men that beat their wives and do other shitty stuff, but as a society we feel the need to excuse women so we'd rather not think about that time she accused that guy of rape, or throw her boyfriend down the stairs or whatever other shitty stuff they've done. Maybe I just live around the worst people in the world.

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[–]ClickclickClever 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to imply that you were excusing anyone's behavior or anything like that. I've been on /r/MR a little too long today and it's just causing my emotions to go haywire, some of this stuff is just too upsetting and going over and over, seeing examples everyday, new stuff that people are happy to pretend doesn't exist or are isolated incidents, it just messes with my head and I kind of start to rant and ramble on, but my comments wasn't directed at you, it was more of just an ambiguous statement.

I agree that most of how this happens is a culture over a nature thing. Though I do think that humans have some wonky inclinations that they get from nature, the state if western women and men is definitely because of the atmosphere that is allowed to survive in mainstream society. Again a lot of happens because of hypo-agency coming from women and male disposable which there is much we can do about the second part but hopefully someday women will be treated like adults and be held accountable for their actions someday instead of the men around them. It's just sad because I see so many women just happy to not accept consequences to whatever mistakes they make and most of them don't even understand that not everyone has that ability. Of course it's not all women but I would but hard pressed to pretend like it isn't the majority unfortunately. One day our society though will accept that women are just people and men are need and not evil creatures that they're made out to be. Anyway, sorry for any confusion and while I'm not a MGTOW, I agree with quite a bit of the philosophy but I'm still optimistic enough to think as long as I'm super careful that I'll be able to find a decent person to share my life with but my track record up till now has been pretty terrible. I hope you're having a nice day though and thanks for the conversation.

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