This isn't equality

FeierInMeinHose · 2014-02-10T19:24:35+00:00

Let's have a good ol' round of Flip-the-Genders: "Treating your man like a king is not called 'being submissive', it's called being a woman." What would the average feminist's reaction to that statement be?

Jizzmaster3000 · 2014-02-10T17:12:50+00:00

This feels like bait.

govt_took_my_baby · 2014-02-10T18:02:48+00:00

No problem with treating 'my woman'(?) like a queen... if she's treating me like a king or it's part of a role play....

Otherwise, she'll be treated like a human person as I would expect... some sort of, oh I don't know... 'equal'? Radical notion, I'm sure

BlindPelican · 2014-02-10T20:17:19+00:00

I actually have no problem with the idea of treating the woman you love as one would a Queen. I do that and, because she does the same in return for me, it works. I mean, it's love, right? That's sorta what you're supposed to do.

The issue I have is equating this with "being a man". Seems to me that phrase should read "being an emotionally available and loving person in an equitable relationship". A rather gender-neutral trait, IYAM.

2014-02-10T17:00:11+00:00

"be a man" = "do this bs, or you're out"

whand · 2014-02-10T17:00:56+00:00

Funny. If you said the exact same about women needing to serve men the feminists would tar and feather you.

2014-02-10T17:52:07+00:00

these stupid pictures are two a penny over on facebook and tumblr

SuperKamiGuru34 · 2014-02-10T21:41:44+00:00

This can be easily attributed to the teenage girls who have no idea about the real world.

Funcuz · 2014-02-10T23:16:39+00:00

It's also called "You're an idiot if you think she's going to respect you."

If she treats you like a king then have at it. If she simply expects to be treated like a queen because her tits are bigger than yours then you need to turn gay.

edtastic · 2014-02-10T18:24:31+00:00

Yet another self serving double standard. Once upon a time it was acceptable for a women to publicly proclaim her commitment to making her man happy. Now such a women would be regarded as a victim of abuse in need of reeducation or rescue.

Vandredd · 2014-02-10T18:20:18+00:00

I'm confused. What is the point of this? I treat my fiance better than other people, so what.

Nomenimion · 2014-02-11T01:55:24+00:00

"I treat a bitch like a queen... but she's gotta know I'm the goddamned king." -Geto Boys

blueoak9 · 2014-02-10T23:25:05+00:00

Can you even imagine one saying that treating your man like a king is not oppression?

People would just be puzzled.

stealer0517 · 2014-02-11T03:44:09+00:00

The true tragedy is that you are running touchwiz

MockingDead · 2014-02-11T04:52:40+00:00

"Sucking a man's dick dis not called "being a slut". it's called being a woman."

Seems legit.

Spooge_Tits · 2014-02-11T15:00:14+00:00

Some fetishists like to worship women and being dominated by them. Let them be.

theozoph · 2014-02-11T16:56:09+00:00

Fuck equality, it's self-serving female entitlement. The only person deserving to be treated like a queen/king is the one acting like one.

Most people nowadays barely make it above wench/serf.

gazork_chumble_spuzz · 2014-02-12T18:39:37+00:00

I see stuff like this on my Facebook feed all the time and it makes me irritated every single time. Why do girls expect to be treated like princesses and queens? How come you never see anyone posting shit about how a "real woman" treats her man like a king? Oh yeah, that's right, because it's demeaning. It's just as demeaning to act like a man's sole purpose in life is to serve and pamper a woman, and to feel lucky while he does it because he totes doesn't deserve to be with such a goddess. UGH.

I don't want to be a queen or a princess. I'm not more important than my husband and I don't deserve any more spoiling or special treatment than he does. He is so good to me and I do my best to reciprocate it. We are equals, partners, lovers, and best friends, and THAT is how it should be. Treating one another well out of love is where it's at - demanding to be pampered because you have a vagina is nauseating, and if the only reason he's doing it is because you've threatened to dump him if he doesn't, it is empty and meaningless.

steps down off soapbox Sorry, this is just one of my "big red button" topics. I hate entitlement, and this one is very prevalent.

HaberdasherFetishist · 2014-02-13T11:06:40+00:00

Should I treat her like a king treats a queen, or should I treat her like a peasant treats a queen?

Title	This isn't equality
Author	chinceparmingthe3rd
Upvotes	61
Comments	28
Date	February 10, 2014 4:55 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/mensrights/comments/1xj3nr/this-isnt-equality/
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