Hey guys, I just want to understand the general feelings of how you view war? (Good, bad, other opinions)

I’m a woman and my brother fought in war, as well as my uncle (vietnam) and grandfather in WWII. They generally don’t like talking about their experiences, so I thought I’d see what anonymous men think about it?

I appreciate your viewpoints and am just here to listen and understand. Apologies if this isn’t the right subreddit- I will delete if it is. Thanks!