Hi recently I have been hearing a lot about Toxic Masculinity so I decided to look at what it was. According to Wikipedia:

The concept of toxic masculinity is used in psychology and gender studies to refer to certain norms of masculine behavior in North America and Europe that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves. Traditional stereotypes of men as socially dominant, along with related traits such as misogyny and homophobia, can be considered "toxic" due to their promotion of violence, including sexual assault and domestic violence. Scholars[who?] argue that the socialization of boys often normalizes violence, such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression.

Self-reliance and emotional repression are correlated with increased psychological problems in men such as depression), increased stress), and substance abuse. Toxic masculine traits are characteristic of the unspoken code of behavior among men in American prisons, where they exist in part as a response to the harsh conditions of prison life.

Other traditionally masculine traits such as devotion to work, pride in excelling at sports, and providing for one's family, are not considered to be "toxic". The concept was originally used by authors[who?] associated with the mythopoetic men's movement in contrast to a "real" or "deep" masculinity that they say men have lost touch with in modern society.

  1. How would you define toxic masculinity?
  2. What is wrong with self reliance?
  3. What is wrong with controlling your emotions?
  4. How is Homophobia an exclusively male thing?
  5. Since when did men promote Sexual assault or domestic violence and are not women capable of those things too?

I expect this will go nowhere but thank you if you do reply.