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Why is he the one in wrong?

Many-Lingonberry-517

April 28, 2022
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/udq46x/aita_for_telling_my_wife_her_body_is_a_6_at_best/

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Title Why is he the one in wrong?
Author

Many-Lingonberry-517

Upvotes 0
Comments 7
Date April 28, 2022 10:10 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/udrmxp/why_is_he_the_one_in_wrong/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/why-is-he-the-one-in-wrong.1113073
https://theredarchive.com/post/1113073
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[–]ForReale4 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Probably because what he did was wrong, purposefully hurtful, unnecessarily cruel, and childish.

What she did was post pictures of her own body which is 100 percent her business.

Communicating as to why she is doing that is the correct response. Not hurling creul insults you can never take back.

[–]Many-Lingonberry-517[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Idk he has also commented they are in a mono relationship and his wife is not ok with it if he does it

[–]ForReale4 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What she did requires a discussion. What he did requires a divorce. Trying to hurt someone to punish them is toxic. Especially when afterwards, you think you're in the right.

[–]CawlinAlcarz 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

OK so I didn't get to read the actual post as it has been deleted, but let me see if I understand the jist of it here:

Wife and husband are monogamous - i.e. not in an open relationship.

Wife and husband do not give each other permission to post nudes of themselves in public.

Wife posts nudes of herself in public.

Husband is pissed, insults her appearance as a means to express his discontent.

Is this correct?

Why do you say that his behavior should result in divorce, while hers only should result in a discussion?

How is the wife acting directly against her husband's wishes not toxic?

Would it be OK if the husband had posted nudes of himself in public against his wife's wishes? Would that be just a discussion?

What if that "discussion" was "Take these pictures down and never do it again, or I'm divorcing your ass."?

[–]TheAynRandFan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I personally diaagree.

[–]TheAynRandFan -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Okay, that's wrong. My judgement is ESH. And I'm a woman. She shouldn't cheat and be a hypocrite and he shouldn't be insulting.

[–]Paltry_Poetaster -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never critique the appearance of anyone is a good general rule of etiquette. There is not much that anyone can do about their physical appearance, they are stuck with it for the duration. This is not a man or woman thing, however, women are acutely sensitive about their appearance and believe that their appearance matters more than their content.

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