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May 9, 2020

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Title	18f ask me a question
Author	ghatchi
Upvotes	0
Comments	54
Date	May 9, 2020 5:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/gg9al2/18f_ask_me_a_question/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/18f-ask-me-a-question.661834 https://theredarchive.com/post/661834

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The fact that my appearance is compared to models that are photoshopped, therefore unattainable. Kinda makes you feel lile shit knowing you'll never look like the girls that guys actually find hot. Also the fact that alot of hot girls have fake boobs and other plastic surgery it really makes me feel like I have to go under the knife to be good enough. I feel like guys on Instagram arent photoshopping the way girls do and the ideal male body isnt made by plastic surgery it's made by gym time. I cant grow bigger tits by just working out. And yeah you might say grow your pecks but I dont want muscle boobs. I also cant get wide hips by working out. Steroids are also cheaper than plastic surgery. Like how am I supposed to remain skinny while still having tons of fat in my boobs and butt?? Also you may say that you can build a butt by doing strength exercises this is mostly bullshit like go look at r/strongcurves I dare you, they literally make posts saying one years progress BUT There. Is. No. Progress. And celebs fake growing their butt bigger by exercise it's literally the combination of good angles and photoshop. Another thing that annoys me is how I will only have this 'privilege' of looking good till I'm 30. I cant turn back time and it sucks that if I ever do marry my husband wont even be attracted to me for the majority of it. It's also funny how critical guys on reddit are of my appearance when I'm 18. Like I thought you said 18 year olds are attractive????? I see alot of criticism for someone being in their 'peak' and I'm not ugly either. My real life experiences are like this too, guys dont want me they want the 25 year old insta thot with fake tits and a fake ass. At 18 how am I supposed to afford to have that.

It's also not easy cause I still have to work like everyone else does. Everyone has to work and pay Bill's etc it's not just guys, we no longer live in the 1900's. Also it's hard to find a guy that actually wants a relationship and isnt just settling for you so that he can get regular sex. Or theres the guys who will pressure you into having sex with them then ghost you. Also guys get bored and WILL NOT hesitate to cheat on you. Guys will do almost anything for sex.

So yeah the main shitty thing about my life is that guys base my value on my looks, something I can only change to a certain extent, and yes they are picky when it comes to relationships. They might settle for you but they will jerk off to girls with big asses to compensate for your small one.

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The fact that my appearance is compared to models that are photoshopped, therefore unattainable.

Awwww, girl. =| Don't read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly

Kinda makes you feel lile shit knowing you'll never look like the girls that guys actually find hot.

Looks only get you laid. Not saying it's not important, but you need personality much more than looks to make a relationship work, ime.

makes me feel like I have to go under the knife to be good enough.

Ouch. I wish you "make it" without needing to change your appearance.

male body isnt made by plastic surgery it's made by gym time.

If it makes you feel better, some guys go and do plastic surgery, too. But generally, yes, a fit body comes from regular investment into chiseling it out.

Like how am I supposed to remain skinny while still having tons of fat in my boobs and butt??

Hmm. Probably impossible.

And celebs fake growing their butt bigger by exercise it's literally the combination of good angles and photoshop.

Lots of manipulation going on, yup. How can we stop it?

It's also funny how critical guys on reddit are of my appearance when I'm 18.

Hey, people are generally shitty online because we don't get to see how the person on the other side, receiving our shit, looks like when hurt. And if people are critical of something about you online, try not joining their team. Like I thought you said 18 year olds are attractive????? I see alot of criticism for someone being in their 'peak' and I'm not ugly either.

It's also not easy cause I still have to work like everyone else does. Everyone has to work and pay Bill's etc it's not just guys, we no longer live in the 1900's.

Yup. True.

Also it's hard to find a guy that actually wants a relationship and isnt just settling for you so that he can get regular sex.

What are you looking for in a relationship?

Also guys get bored and WILL NOT hesitate to cheat on you. Guys will do almost anything for sex.

While this seems to be the general sentiment, if it helps you, not everybody cheats. I never cheated, despite having had numerous opportunities. Some guys are satisfied with having one babe at home. And that includes the inevitable dry periods (times) in a LTR.

yes they are picky when it comes to relationships.

You mean commitment?

They might settle for you but they will jerk off to girls with big asses to compensate for your small one.

Some will jerk off even if you fuck their brains regularly. Some will only see you and nobody else, to the opposite "detrimental" extent.

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