I ask because I recently had a very creepy interaction with a member of the sub who will go unnamed.

I'm beginning to wonder if continued discourse on gender leads people to become more unstable over time.

My reasoning,

1.)Dating love and sexual validation are things that despite are denial seem to be very core to nature of most human beings and their esteem in a significant respect.

2.)The stated experiences of the average man and women are so diametrically opposed that reconciliation is largely impossible and attempts to do so lead to frustration and a further deterioration of expected trust and charitable interpretation for members of the opposite sex

3.) This ultimately manifests in a pathological hostility or crusader mentality where people attach identity to their dating experiences because to give any ground to the "otherside" would mean neccesarily invalidating one's own struggle and or success. Because the metrics for why people "succeed" as viewed by men and women are largely incompatible at least as far as this sub is concerned.