I asked this girl questions on jewelry i wanted to buy. She didnt answer, but would answer other texts etc.

A month or so later during a different text convo I again asked her about the jewlery. She didnt answer it.

In a different scenario i gave her a small gift card randomly just to see what she would do. It was over text, but i asked her other questions about supplements etc when i sent the gift card. She answered the questions but didn’t acknowledge the gift card code or thank me for it.

Those two instances are enough for me to cross off that girl for any kind of sex, relationship, or anything else.

I haven’t mentioned to her that those instances are a big problem for me.

Ive thought about it, ive thought about what she could possibly do to make up for those offenses of not saying thank you and not answering the jewlery question.

Ive came to the conclusion i think there is nothing she could do to make up for those offenses. We just aren’t friends, we’re nothing. Maybe if she gave me lots of money, I would be able to force myself to talk to her and maintain a connection. But i dont know if I would actually be able to truly forgive her for doing those things. I lost almost all sexual attraction to her because of her doing that. So I could force myself to be fake friends or something with her. But I’m not sure i could ever get hard with her.

It’s odd because the first few weeks i met her, she did excite me and i felt attracted. Actually in my mind, I thought I would be seeing her forever those first few weeks. Now that’s totally changed.