What defines a HVM?

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-03T10:55:53+00:00

A man who likes and respects himself, likes and respects women and is able and willing to lead. It's not rocket science. While a good looking guy may get a 60 second audition, by and large women will always look at your behavior to determine if you are a high quality guy. If your behavior communicates neuroses instead of oozing sex, then you will never be truly a high quality man.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2022-01-03T13:48:32+00:00

Low BMI and financial stability. Everything else is perfunctory. Women can cap all they want

KirthWGersen · 2022-01-03T10:58:08+00:00

There are no universally accepted traits. One woman's ideal of an HVM is a starving artist; another's a spiritual guru; another's a high-earning businessman; another's a counter-culture warrior, etc. And they may also change throughout her life.

It is inherently subjective so it is impossible to appeal to all, as they tend to be mutually exclusive. However, some types tend to be more broadly attractive and some women value men from several categories (or just like variety).

We all have a niche. The smaller the niche, the smaller the pool but the deeper the attraction.

A man should play to his strengths rather than try to make himself broadly attractive: it is pointless, as you only need to attract a small minority of women to have an overabundance of options.

Dan240z · 2022-01-03T10:58:52+00:00

Usually college educated making around 100k+ - depends on geographical location. Has good credit score about 700-850+ range very extroverted so he would like to go out to fancy dinners. And wine and dine the woman he's seeing. Be in decent shape like body fat percentage should be around 10-17 percent depends on your height in which how much you need to trim down. Also have a career either in finance, law, medicine, tech or white collar for the most part. I think that should help you for now.

gimpgirl555 · 2022-01-03T10:53:58+00:00

A guy who has many options. Simples.

KirthWGersen · 2022-01-03T11:06:26+00:00

Famous, tall, handsome, ripped, wealthy in that order.

John_Oakman · 2022-01-03T11:33:01+00:00

Sexually desirable, everything else either gets excused or dismissed.

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Mark_Freed · 2022-01-03T21:17:03+00:00

Men 1) Intelligence - HVM are logical, rational, analytical and has great foresight/insight. They are highly educated, knows multiple languages.

2) Generous - HVM will spoil you, take you on costly dates, buy you gifts, invest time, effort, resources into the relationship. Simping is promoted by FDS while Red Pill warns/shames Simps who worship their partner like this. Feminists try to take the middle ground here. HVM put a lot of thought and effort into the gifts, remembering small details and doing acts of service unprompted.

3) High-quality friends - HVM will have other HVM as friends, notice who he hangs out with. You will see him call out bad behavior in other guys (assertive, confrontational when needed). LVM might ignore it, at best avoid the person. They would even be polite and not Shame them.

4) Direct communication - HVM communicate honestly, openly, directly. They might take time away to calm down but will come back to resume hard conversations unprompted. They will never gossip or tell negative things about you behind your back. He listens when you tell him your Boundaries and don't need to be constantly reminded. He will stay in contact frequently and with high-quality messages. He will be emotionally available to you. His actions match his words and he walks the talk.

5) Humility - LVM have fragile egos and can't handle criticism. They get emotional, angry, aggressive, defensive, start to give excuses, act out rebelliously and in spite. They even expect you to apologize because their feelings were hurt. HVM will thank you and welcome fair, honest, constructive criticism given in good faith. HVM will admit to his flaws and take action to start working on them. He would admit he is in a bad mood and ask for help if he needs it. His ego can handle your success, ambition and he will genuinely celebrate them with you, and not feel threatened. LVM have self-esteem issues.

6) Wealthy - HVM are rich, earned that money using his own abilities. He has high status in his community, he has power, connections and competence.

7) Gentleness - This is not borne out of weakness or inability rather HVM are strong, considerate, and have respect. They are gentle because they chose to show restraint. They respect the Boundaries you set. LVM are aggressive, have short tempers, violent, cocky, assholes.

8) Healthy - HVM takes care of hygiene, grooms himself well, has a good sleep schedule, eats nutritious food, is not picky, wears neat clothes, exercises, etc.

9) Handsome - HVM are hot, chiseled sharp jawline, not balding, low body fat, flat stomach, exotic race, rare light eye color, tall, broad shoulders, muscular in a lean way, strong enough to princess carry you, even growth of beard. He has a deep voice. Unblemished skin. Well defined butt.

theGreatRohisacuck · 2022-01-06T22:25:48+00:00

A Man that other women want

Title	What defines a HVM?
Author	CorporalDavid
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Date	January 3, 2022 10:47 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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