I've skimmed through a lot of the post and it's quite striking to see some of these post filled with so much anger (some, not all).

I recognize the term incel means 'involuntary celibate'. Pretty much, men (for the most part) who can't find romantic or sexual relationships despite wanting one.

With this in mind I guess it's not surprising to see some people have some... feelings they want to get out of their system. However, i would like to understand a few things (do keep in mind I am a female, so maybe there are things I just won't understand, just like there are some things that men wouldn't understand).

Why is it that some of the people I am reading about seem to feel like a woman SHOULD hookup or pursue them for no apparent reason. I don't understand this. Relationships are made based on mutual understanding and connection. Conversation and generally feeling attracted to someone (it's been said the more you like a person, the more physically attractive they become in your mind). So, expecting a girl to just want you off the spot isn't smart, it takes time.

Unless you're just interested in getting physical with someone, in which case that shouldn't be too hard. Just go to a club or something

It feels like there's a sense of... Entitlement? And usually they want ATTRACTIVE girls, not just a girl. I mean that's normal to be attracted to someone who is attractive, but if they don't want someone who they feel is unattractive, why do they feel a top ten model should look past their looks. Why is that?

Also, before some you accuse me of all sorts of things: this is coming from a virgin. I haven't so much as KISSED a guy before (by choice, should I get approached I usually just politely decline). I am not interested in having a romantic relationship with ANYONE simply because I am too busy. I would like to have a long term relationship when I am older, but just not now.