I know I know, let me say this, you never do it direct, especially when most men do not listen to instruction these days. or don't ever. But the war on feminism requires soldiers, and the best soldiers will be ex BP men, who become RP.

Help me help this guy I know, he reminds me much of my self, he's about 10 years younger, but I was WAY worse then him at his age, at least he knows 1 or 2 things, and is not overweight at all (underweight none the less).

He has said i am the most manly man he knows (which is kinda sad, because i don't really think this about my self), even has a funny name saved for me in his phone about being a unit etc. He thinks i got big and strong reading the Bible.

I have told him to lift weight - he says no, idolatry, and then another guy right there at church meetup asked about my lifting etc, and then showed us his mom doing powerlifting lol. (shes pretty solid woman).

I checked his top 20 messages, basically all to girls he is trying to date. I told him to stop completely, but he wants to only respond if the send a txt 1st.

He has gone on rants on church group messages, in our mid week meetings, at me, maybe 5 times just this week.

I deeply feel sorry for this kid, he has had a poor go in life, and God is a Father to the Fatherless (something i wish this sub embraced and responded more in love to each other, although we do a good job, we can all improve).

What can i do to help him out, or do better my self. Please counsel me.

Love you all, God bless you.