Thoughts?

woowho-vintage · 2019-11-07T12:26:30+00:00

You break off your current relationship BEFORE you take up with someone else.

When you're married you keep your knees together for everyone except your husband and men keep their pants zipped up for everyone but their wives.

Honestly this stupid woman is lucky he took her back.

Mrswizardwizard · 2019-11-07T01:28:11+00:00

If you cheat you don't get to decide your partner is controlling imo. You created the situation, you created the hurt, you created the betrayal and subsequent lack of trust; you don't get to complain about them asking you to move on entirely from that part of your life. A large part of me believes that moving on from cheating (while staying together) involves both people becoming basically new people and 'killing' the old versions of yourselves; for the cheater that might include cutting out anybody who knew about the situation and didn't warn the other spouse, anybody that reminds the spouse of the cheating, etc. If the cheating partner can't handle this then it's probably best to move on from the relationship entirely.

Pola_Lita · 2019-11-07T14:26:45+00:00

To be clear, I would not forgive someone who cheated on me. I would not even try. But forgiveness doesn't come with qualifications. As long as he refuses to trust you he hasn't forgiven you.

countrylemon · 2019-11-07T22:23:08+00:00

Ending the friendship was the unfortunate part of all this, because the boss was a third party, however, they were a RELATED party, so the request of ending the friendship is fair. Her doing it only after sneaking behind his back again is unacceptable.

TripleXwoman · 2019-11-07T01:52:11+00:00

I agree with her husband. She created the situation and now if she wants to continue her marriage it's going to have to be by his rules.

conuretrash · 2019-11-07T01:09:26+00:00

The wife is in the wrong. Her husband is a complete beta cuck for staying, but the wife shouldn’t be reaching out to anyone from her past situation; she should focus on being a decent person let alone wife.

drshafi96 · 2019-11-07T04:45:19+00:00

They’re both wrong . The wife’s a cheater and the husband has emotional issues. The relationship never works out like this.

just_a_mum · 2019-11-07T00:33:58+00:00

I agree with the response. Not the reason for cheating part, but the fact that he sounds like an emotional bully.

GayVampireBobaTea · 2020-03-24T23:04:27+00:00

This post and this whole subreddit is such a toxic mess, wow

CultistHeadpiece · 2019-11-07T00:33:12+00:00

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Title	Thoughts?
Author	CultistHeadpiece
Upvotes	16
Comments	16
Date	November 7, 2019 12:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/dsp7z5/thoughts/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWives/thoughts.294298 https://theredarchive.com/post/294298

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